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10 ways to stop obsessing over himWritten by Nikita Sawant Published on May 7, 2017, 00:00 ISTFollow OnLike him so much that you stalk him? Well, that’s gotta stop.

Everyone has obsessed over someone at one point or the other. But have you ever gone creepy-stalker like obsessed? If you have, or are obsessing over someone right now, here’s what you can do to salvage the situation.

First of all, stop stalking him

Put your spy-like tendencies to rest and focus on other things. Wasting so much time focusing on someone else’s life is just not worth it.

Remember, he has flaws too Maybe he spits while talking, or is terribly overbearing, just focus on his flaws to get over him.

Distract yourself

Do something cool… go skydiving! Or go partying. Whatever floats your boat, really.

Let your friends help

You’re going to need all the help you can get, so let your girls take care of you. Tell them to snap you out of it if they find you daydreaming about him.

There are other cute guys

Look around! There are always enough cute guys. Find one that likes you back and don’t let him go.

Think about him once in a while

Okay, fine, we know getting over someone is easier said than done. So allow yourself five minutes once in a while to think about how awesome he is.

And then let it go

But once the five minutes are over, get on with your life. Don’t slink back into your obsessive behaviour.

Pamper yourself

Make time for yourself and just let your hair down. Go for a spa treatment, binge on your favourite ice cream, cook your favourite dishes and just treat yourself good.

Do things you love

Find something you like doing and do it. It doesn’t matter if it makes you feel silly as long as it keeps your mind off him.

Slowly distance yourself from him

Eventually, the obsession will fade away. Slowly let go of him and the memories you shared with him, and move on.

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