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13 Ways to Make an Aries Man Obsessed with You Download Article Astrology experts share how to impress an Aries man & make him fall in love Explore this Article IN THIS ARTICLE 1 Reveal only a little bit about yourself at a time. 2 Be super flirty and compliment him often. 3 Go on fun, adventurous dates. 4 Joke around and show off your sense of humor. 5 Engage in interesting, spirited debates. 6 Show off your confidence. 7 Embrace spontaneity and be a little unpredictable. 8 Be independent and ambitious. 9 Be honest and direct. 10 Be passionate and authentic. 11 Give him space. 12 Get along with his friends. 13 Show your passionate side in the bedroom. + Show 10 more... - Show less... Other Sections Expert Q&A Video Related Articles Expert Interview References Co-authored by Stina Garbis and Devin McSween

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This article was co-authored by Stina Garbis and by wikiHow staff writer, Devin McSween. Reverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary. There are 12 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page. This article has been fact-checked, ensuring the accuracy of any cited facts and confirming the authority of its sources. This article has been viewed 328,965 times.

Crushing on an Aries man can feel positively thrilling. This fire sign is independent, spontaneous, and always down to try new things. If you’re curious how to make an Aries guy absolutely obsessed with you, we’re here to help! We spoke with expert astrologers to learn how to attract, woo, and make an Aries man fall in love. Keep on reading to get your guy!

How to Attract an Aries Man

To attract an Aries man, show him that you’re confident and independent. Live your life authentically and keep pursuing your hobbies, goals, and friendships. Aries men are bold and adventurous, so suggest fun, active, and spontaneous dates. Be flirty and leave him wanting more to really make him obsessed.

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Reveal only a little bit about yourself at a time.

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1. Aries men like to work to get to know you. When it comes to love, they enjoy the chase. Professional astrologer Angel Eyedealism agrees and says Aries loves a challenge.[1] Encourage him to pursue you by being mysterious and only giving him a little bit of information at a time. Also, be a little unavailable to him when he asks to make plans. He'll be super intrigued and obsessed with learning more about you.[2]
   • When he asks about your night, give him only a few details. You might text him and say, "It was a lot of fun! I checked out a show with some friends 🙂." That leaves him room to ask questions and learn more.
   • Make plans with your friends and family, too. He'll likely be more enticed to get to know you if he sees that getting on your schedule is a challenge.

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   Angel Eyedealism is a professional astrologer with nearly 30 years of astrology experience. She specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography.

   Stina Garbis is a psychic astrologer with over 30 years of experience doing astrological and tarot card readings.

   Jessica Lanyadoo is an astrologer & psychic medium with over 30 years of experience. Her work has been featured in CNN, The Today Show, Rolling Stone, and more.

   Mechila Blake is an astrologer with over 7 years of experience. Known as Astrology_Lyfe online, she boasts 53k+ followers on Instagram.

   Tara Divina is a Vedic astrologer with nearly 10 years of experience helping people answer life’s biggest questions.

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Be super flirty and compliment him often.

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1. Aries men want to feel adored by their partners. Though they're usually not lacking in confidence, they do need to feel appreciated, says psychic astrologer Stina Garbis.[3] To get his attention, tell your Aries man what you like about him and be specific. Be flirty in other ways, too. Physical affection and a sweet smile will likely make him super into you.[4]
   • When you see him walk by, look him in the eye and give him a genuine smile. When you go on dates, lean in close to him while he talks, touch his shoulder, or even greet him with a hug and a kiss on the cheek.
   • To compliment him, you might say something like, "I love the way you approach life. You really go for what you want!" or "You've got the coolest taste in music. I always want to know your recommendations."
   • According to Garbis, any compliment that starts with “You are…” is sure to get an Aries’ attention. For instance, you might say something simple like, “You’re so amazing” or “You’re so strong.”[5]
   • If you want to compliment his good looks, be specific so that your words feel genuine. You might text something like, "I love your freckles. I think they're so cute 😊"
   • Aries men love to feel like they're being actively pursued, so it's important to make him feel wanted, says astrologer & psychic medium Jessica Lanyadoo.[6]

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Go on fun, adventurous dates.

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1. As the Ram of the zodiac, Aries men charge towards new experiences. Make him obsessed with you by planning dates that feel thrilling and unexpected. For instance, plan an activity or sports-themed dates to keep him energized. If you do, he'll be dying to keep making plans with you.[7]
   • For example, plan dates like mini golf, bowling, or an evening at the arcade.
   • As you get to know each other, plan longer dates. For instance, take a day trip to the beach or spend the day exploring a new neighborhood. Aries men often enjoy dates that extend through the day and into the night.[8]
   • Don't be afraid to let him take the lead on your dates, since Aries likes to be the boss, says Lanyadoo.[9]
   • Reader Poll: We asked 576 wikiHow readers who are women if they would make the first move and ask a man on a date, and 54% said said no, they’d prefer getting asked out by a man. [Take Poll] If you’re into an Aries guy, consider asking him out first—he’ll appreciate you taking the initiative!
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Joke around and show off your sense of humor.

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1. Aries men enjoy boisterous and physical comedy. No stranger to being the center of attention, they like making people laugh and want a partner who feels the same, says Garbis.[10] Encourage your Aries man to really fall for you by showing him your unique sense of humor.
   • Send him funny GIFS or memes from TV shows or movies. An Aries man will likely appreciate shows with a goofy sense of humor, like The Simpsons or Big Mouth.
   • Tease him playfully to show off your irreverent side. You might say something like, "Up late watching movies again? Do you ever sleep?"
   • A little teasing is a great way to flirt, too! Garbis says lightly and flirtatiously poking at an Aries will drive them wild. According to her, if you make their blood boil just a little, they might just find you even more attractive![11]

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Engage in interesting, spirited debates.

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1. An Aries wants an intellectual match in a partner. Show off your quick-thinking mind with a fiery conversation. To get things going, bring up topics like current events, philosophy, and politics if you're comfortable. An Aries man will go crazy for you if he sees that you can keep up with him (or beat him) in a debate.[12]
   • To kick off the conversation, you might send him a link to an article or news story with the caption, "I've got a lot of thoughts on this. What about you?" If you're talking in person, you might give him a rundown of the story and ask for his opinion.
   • Keep things respectful throughout your conversation. If things get too heated or he doesn't seem interested in discussing the subject, change the subject.
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Show off your confidence.

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1. Aries men are often very confident and appreciate that quality in others. He'll be attracted to you if he sees that you're similarly self-assured. When you go out with your Aries man, keep your head held high, speak with assurance, and remember all of your strengths. He'll be enamored by your charisma and faith in yourself.[13]
   • It can be hard to be confident all the time. To give yourself a boost, write down a list of your favorite qualities about yourself. Turn to that list anytime you find yourself lacking in confidence.
   • Ride the line between confidence and humility. While Aries men like self-assured people, arrogance can be a turn-off for them. Definitely show off who you are, but also be willing to listen to others and own up to when you’re wrong or make mistakes.

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Embrace spontaneity and be a little unpredictable.

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1. Aries men are go-getters who are always looking for the next best thing. As you get to know each other, keep things exciting and try to avoid falling into a routine. Otherwise, he might get a little bored. If you show him that you're just as spontaneous as he is, your Aries man will fall head over heels for you.[14]
   • If you've been on a string of dinner dates, spice things up by going out to breakfast or planning an afternoon picnic instead.
   • Be spontaneous and change up your plans in the moment for an exciting thrill. If you're on an evening stroll and walk by a bar with live music, for example, go inside and check it out!
   • Be willing to go along with your Aries man’s spontaneous plans, too! Astrologer Mechila Blake says that when you’re with an Aries man, “expect active, adventure-filled dates—Aries men aren’t the type to just chill at home.”[15]
   • As Blake explains, Aries men have a lot of energy because they’re cardinal signs. She says, “Dating an Aries man means you’ll never be bored…They might stay up all night researching a cool new place and then excitedly suggest going there the next day.”[16]
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Be independent and ambitious.

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1. As cardinal signs, Aries men are often leaders and independent thinkers. To really strike his interest, embrace those qualities in yourself. Keep living an active life without your Aries man by making plans with your friends and family, striving to meet your goals, and devoting time to your other passions in life. He'll be super impressed and excited to be by the side of such a successful, dynamic person.[17]
   • Even if your romance is making you feel a little distracted, remember to focus on your other goals in life, too.
   • For instance, keep striving to follow your dreams, whether they’re professional or life goals, and dedicate plenty of time to your hobbies and interests.
   • Plan fun nights out with your friends, and catch up with your family if they live in the area. Go on some solo outings, too, like a trip to the movies or a long drive by yourself.
   • To be independent while still including him in your life, ask him for help or advice. You might say, "I've got a big deadline for my grad school application tomorrow. You think I could read you my personal statement?" This will appeal to his protective nature.

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Be honest and direct.

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1. Aries men are bold and courageous, and want someone who’s the same. Like their symbol, the Ram, Aries charges through life head-on, always taking the direct approach. So, he appreciates people who can match his energy. If he asks for your opinion, give him your honest thoughts instead of trying to sugar-coat them to appease him. If there’s something you want to say, tell him straight instead of beating around the bush.[18]
   • This includes your feelings for him, too. If you’re super into an Aries guy, tell him that you like him! He’ll admire your bravery and your ability to be upfront and straightforward.
   • As Garbis explains, “Aries have a natural courageousness to tell you how they feel. They can not hold things back or keep things secret for very long.”[19]
   • That means you don’t really have to question whether an Aries likes you or not. Blake says, “They are open with their feelings. If they like you, you’ll know. If they don’t, you’ll know that, too.”[20]
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Be passionate and authentic.

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1. Showing off your fiery side and personality is sure to get an Aries' attention. As a fire sign, Aries are known for their intensity, enthusiasm, and expressiveness. So, be sure to let him know what you’re passionate about and what makes you unique. Talk to him about your interests, hobbies, and dreams (and be sure to go after them, too!). Express yourself freely, from the emotions you feel to the clothes you wear.
   • Bottom line, let your Aries man see that you’re not afraid to be yourself and own who you are. They’re attracted to authenticity, and that includes living life on your own terms and pursuing what you love!
   • Aries really admires loyalty, too. Show him how passionate you are for your friends, family, and him (of course), by helping them when they’re in need and attending events that are important to them.

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Give him space.

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1. Ruled by the 1st House of the Self, Aries men are very independent. Vedic astrologer Tara Divina says Aries needs space, so that means that you might need to give him alone time more than other signs.[21] To capture the heart of an Aries man, respect that about him. If he sees that you're comfortable with his need to do his own thing sometimes, he'll be obsessed with you in no time.[22]
   • Be understanding when he needs to spend a few days alone instead of going on back-to-back dates.
   • When your Aries man needs alone time, use it as an opportunity to demonstrate that you’re independent and self-assured. Spend time pursuing your hobbies, going on adventures, or hanging out with your friends.
   • Avoid checking up on him or double-texting if you don't immediately hear back. He might have ditched his phone to go on a solo hike or take a drive. You'll likely hear from him when he gets back.
   • Astrologers Tali & Ophira Edut advise that, “In those moments where [Aries] wants to be left alone, you [have] to leave them alone. And then when they emerge, make sure that you know that they are royalty in your eyes.”[23]
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Get along with his friends.

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1. Aries men love meeting new people and often have many friends. To win him over, show him that you're comfortable with his social lifestyle.[24] Be understanding when he makes plans to hang out with his friends, and be open to meeting and hanging out with his pals if he invites you along. He'll be relieved to see that you're not threatened by his social nature and will start to really fall for you.
   • Avoid getting jealous of your Aries man’s friends. This might make him feel like his independence is being threatened, which could send him running.
   • Let him meet your friends, too! He’ll love that you feel confident introducing him to the people you love, and he’ll enjoy the opportunity to make new friends.[25]

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Show your passionate side in the bedroom.

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1. Aries men are known for their unparalleled sexuality. As you get to know each other, embrace your unique sexuality, too. Be open about what you want and ask him what he likes. He'll fall for you if you show him that you're open to experimenting and having fun.
   • It's okay to hold off if you're not ready to get intimate just yet. There are tons of ways to get an Aries man's attention, and you can totally wait until you feel more comfortable.
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What is it like dating an Aries man? WikiWombatChaser358 I've been seeing this really cute Aries guy recently and I'm wondering what Aries men are like in relationships. Are they good boyfriends? How do I make him fall for me? Read More Stina Garbis Psychic Astrologer Aries men emulate the phrase “I am.” So if you're talking to them and start any sentence with, “You are…”—like, “You are so strong,” “You are so great,” “You're so amazing”—then you'll be heading in the right direction. Aries men love attention and hate being alone with no one telling them how great they are. On the flip side, if you lightly or flirtatiously tease an Aries man and make him a little mad, it might drive him wild. But tread lightly, an Aries' anger is not something to toy with. But if you do make an Aries man's blood boil a little, he will think about you a lot. If he finds you attractive, it may make him go wild with wanting to see you again so that he can tell you how he feels about what you said. But Aries men also forgive and forget really quickly and easily, so it may turn into him asking you out on a date a few days later.Aries men are into themselves. Whatever he likes about himself (or his adopted persona at the time) is what he's into. Aries is ruled by the planet Mars, the god of war, so any space to release his aggression is where you will find Aries. He may be playing video games, practicing MMA, or watching or participating in sports. Other ways to channel this energy might be creative or competitive pursuits like acting, singing, theater, public speaking, social media, etc. I wouldn't advise becoming a competitor to an Aries man and trying to do everything that he does, but rather be a spectator or do something to complement him. If you become his favorite fan or collaborator and cheer him on, he will love and adore you. Read More WikiToadTrader400 I started dating an Aries man about 6 months ago and our connection is so electric! We both want each other so bad all the time and it feels like he went all in real quick. I'm a little nervous that things are going to drop off at some point because I keep hearing about Aries' reputation of coming in hot and heavy and then ending up being way too much. At the moment, I'm happy that he wants to see me every day (or if we can't see each other, we'll do a phone call) and even though it's been months of him showering me with compliments and romantic gestures, I still love all of it and do my best to match his energy. Hopefully things keep going strong! Read More See all 37 Replies and Read Discussion

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• Question What traits are Aries attracted to? Stina Garbis Psychic Astrologer Reverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary. Stina Garbis Psychic Astrologer Expert Answer They are into themselves. Whatever they like about themselves is what they are into. I wouldn’t advise becoming a competitor to Aries and trying to do everything that they do, but rather, be a spectator or do something to complement them. Thanks! We're glad this was helpful. Thank you for your feedback. If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow Yes No Not Helpful 24 Helpful 82

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Co-authored by: Stina Garbis Psychic Astrologer This article was co-authored by Stina Garbis and by wikiHow staff writer, Devin McSween. Reverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary. This article has been viewed 328,965 times. How helpful is this? Co-authors: 11 Updated: February 19, 2026 Views: 328,965 Categories: Astrology Relationships In other languages Czech Japanese Italian

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