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How to Make a Leo Man Miss You After a Breakup Download Article Expert tips to make any Leo man regret losing you Explore this Article IN THIS ARTICLE 1 Make glamorous fashion choices. 2 Post fun moments on social media. 3 Spend time with your mutual friends. 4 Boost your confidence to match his intensity. 5 Spread positivity. 6 Ignore him for a while after a rough breakup. 7 Ask him for help if you’re on good terms. 8 Show him loyalty through your support. 9 Give him compliments and praise. 10 Be optimistic about your future together. 11 Wait for him to ask to get back together. 12 Don’t try to make him jealous. + Show 9 more... - Show less... Other Sections Video Related Articles References Co-authored by Joshua Pompey
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Leos (born July 23 - August 22) are courageous, energetic, and passionate people, but they can also be a bit boastful, arrogant, and stubborn at times. If your ex is a Leo man, you’ll have to appeal to both his strengths and weaknesses to get him to miss you and want you back. Luckily, we’ve compiled a guide on how to do just that! Keep reading to learn how to reignite his interest and show him how big of a mistake it was to break up with you.
How do you get a Leo man back?
To make a Leo man miss you and want you back, act confident, look your best when you’re going to see him, and plan lots of activities in your own life so that he sees how fun and adventurous you are. Maintain an upbeat and positive attitude when you interact, and remind him of the good times you’ve shared.
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Make glamorous fashion choices.
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Wear your nicest clothes and put effort into your appearance. While Leos are incredibly kindhearted, they can also be a little vain and attracted to superficial beauty.[1]XResearch source To get your Leo ex to notice you after a breakup, show up at a place he likes while you’re all dressed up, or post photos of yourself looking gorgeous on social media. Seeing you all done up could spark his interest and get him thinking about you again!
Leos appreciate luxury.[2]XResearch source They’re easily won over by shiny things and splendor, so if you can, wear your most expensive outfits and accessories, and indulge in spa treatments to make your skin glow.
Even if you don’t turn his head and get his attention right away, you’ll be turning other heads! Guys tend to be very visually oriented, explains relationship expert Joshua Pompey, so any number of potential suitors may notice your sense of style and be impressed.[3]X Expert Source Joshua PompeyRelationship ExpertExpert Interview
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Post fun moments on social media.
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Leos are attracted to extraversion and pure fun. Prove to your Leo man that he’s missing out by showing him what a good time you two could be having. Throw a party with your friends, plan an outdoor adventure, or go to a karaoke night. And of course, make sure to snap some photos and share them on social media so your ex can see. A Leo man seeks enthusiasm and energy in his partner, so he’ll immediately start missing your fun vibes.[4]XResearch source
To really make him miss you, you’ll need to be genuinely having fun and enjoying your independence.
Leos value authenticity and they can usually see through fakeness, so don’t just go through the motions—actually lean in and enjoy yourself![5]XResearch source
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Spend time with your mutual friends.
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Keep your mutual friends updated about your life. Leos tend to be the leaders in friend groups, and they love to stay up-to-date on the latest drama.[6]XResearch source If you maintain your friendships with your mutual friends, they’ll likely talk about you while he’s around, and your Leo ex will probably jump at the chance to get some insider info on how you're doing. Those conversations might bring up memories of your relationship that’ll make him wish you were still in his life.
Grab a meal with your mutual friends, go on outings with them, and show up at parties and other social events.
This strategy works particularly well if you’re not in contact via text or social media—he’ll get a reminder of how awesome you are without you having to reach out.
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Boost your confidence to match his intensity.
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Work on your self-esteem to get your Leo ex to miss you. Leos are powerful and confident–and they want a partner who can keep up with that inner strength.[7]XResearch source Breakups are the worst, but try to look at this time apart as an opportunity to pursue your own passions and reconnect with what makes you feel empowered. The next time your Leo ex sees you, he’ll be stunned by your confidence and independence, and it’ll make him want you more!
Take up a new hobby or take a class on your own to build your confidence.
Try to exercise for at least 30 minutes a day and eat plenty of fruits and vegetables.[8]X Trustworthy Source Mayo ClinicEducational website from one of the world's leading hospitals Go to source
Talk with strangers, call a loved one, and make an effort to connect with new people.[9]X Trustworthy Source HelpGuideNonprofit organization dedicated to providing free, evidence-based mental health and wellness resources. Go to source
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Spread positivity.
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When you radiate positive energy, your Leo man will notice! Leos tend to be pretty optimistic people, so it’s no surprise that they’re attracted to genuine inner happiness.[10]XResearch source The next time you see your ex, act upbeat, smile, and highlight things you’re grateful for in your life. Your optimistic vibes will be infectious, which can help you win him over again.
Try to embrace this positive mindset all the time, not just when you’re around your ex.
To become more positive, take part in activities that challenge your creativity and make you feel productive.[11]X Trustworthy Source HelpGuideNonprofit organization dedicated to providing free, evidence-based mental health and wellness resources. Go to source
Engage in relaxing activities like meditation or yoga, volunteer to help others, and reconnect with the people who bring you joy in your life.
If you don’t see your Leo ex in person, try spreading positivity on social media. Create a post celebrating one of your family members or friends.
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Ignore him for a while after a rough breakup.
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Use this strategy for a haughty Leo who thrives off attention. Leos care a lot about their reputation and being the center of attention.[12]XResearch source Ignoring him for a little bit might make him miss the attention you used to give him, which might push him to seek you out again. Just don’t rely on this strategy for too long, or his wounded pride might make him push you away even further.[13]XResearch source After all, Leos secretly crave deep connection. A week or two of distancing yourself should do the trick!
This is a great option if he dumped you. Take some time to yourself to heal while you ignore him.
Hold off on texting or calling him. Let him make the first move.
Don’t like or comment on his social media posts.
If you broke up dramatically, try not to engage in the drama. Leos love drama, so don’t give him the satisfaction.[14]XResearch source
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Ask him for help if you’re on good terms.
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Leos are the ultimate protectors. Even if you’re broken up, your Leo man might still feel a responsibility to help keep you safe and happy. While it’s important not to take advantage of him, you can try asking your Leo ex to help you with something small–even a restaurant recommendation or a piece of advice. His instincts as a leader and protector may fire up and make him miss you.[15]XResearch source
Text him saying, “Can I get your help with something?”
Then ask him for help on a topic he likes. For instance, if he’s super tech savvy, ask him for help in picking out a new computer.
If you’re still good friends, you can ask him for something deeper, like advice on dealing with a coworker or a tough situation.
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Show him loyalty through your support.
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Deep down, Leos want real love and genuine connection. They may be the life of the party and act like they’re invincible, but the truth is they want to be accepted for who they are.[16]XResearch source Draw your Leo ex in by being kind and showing him that you’re still there as a friend. Genuinely caring about him will make him miss the emotional connection you once had.
Be courteous and compassionate in all your interactions with him, even when you feel hurt.
If you’re still friends, ask how he’s doing on a regular basis, and give him support if he needs it.
For instance, if you know he has something tough coming up at school or work, text him, “I know you’ve got that tough assignment this week. You’ve got this!”
Leos themselves are known for their loyalty, so your lasting devotion to him may spark his own for you.[17]XResearch source
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Give him compliments and praise.
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Add a little flattery when you interact with your ex. Leos like to be treated with respect and even reverence.[18]XResearch source Remind your Leo you were good for him by pointing out his strengths and appeal to his vanity a bit by complimenting his physical appearance. These types of compliments go a long way when it comes to reigniting his interest!
For instance, if you’ve noticed your ex got a haircut, say something like, “Wow, your hair looks amazing.”
If you don’t see him in person, try reaching out via social media to drop a compliment on his latest post.
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To win over a Leo man, show him lots of attention. If he likes football, go to the game or bring snacks on game day to show your support. Laugh at his jokes, even the dumb ones. Make him feel like he is the big man on campus, and always compliment how handsome and strong and clever he is.
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Be optimistic about your future together.
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Draw him back by reminding him how beautiful your future could be. Instead of thinking negatively or hopelessly about your relationship, focus on how you could make it work if you got back together. Mention the things the two of you have in common, the amazing memories you share, and the ways you’ve each grown since the breakup.[19]XResearch source When he sees all the positive things about your connection laid out, he might be able to envision that beautiful future, too.
Remind him of the dreams and goals you shared when you were together. The happiest couples pursue goals together.[20]XResearch source
Get nostalgic about the good times in your relationship. For example, text him something like, "I went to that restaurant we used to love on Third Street."
Don’t speak negatively or gossip about the relationship with any mutual friends–it might get back to him, and the negativity will push him away.
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Wait for him to ask to get back together.
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Leos don’t like being told what to do. Instead, they value the ability to control their own destinies and make their own choices.[21]XResearch source Even though it’s tough, be patient during the break up. Once your Leo ex misses you enough, you can start indirectly hinting at getting back together.
Say something like, “I’ve missed you” rather than “I think we should get back together.”
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Don’t try to make him jealous.
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You'll hurt your Leo if you betray his loyalty. It might be tempting to flaunt a new romantic relationship in front of your Leo ex, but that likely won’t make him miss you—it will just wound his pride and make him view you negatively, which can then hurt your chances of getting back together.[22]XResearch source
Remember, Leos don’t like to be manipulated, and they deeply value authenticity and loyalty.[23]XResearch source Try to be genuine with your ex instead of playing mind games.
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Wear your nicest clothes and put effort into your appearance. While Leos are incredibly kindhearted, they can also be a little vain and attracted to superficial beauty.[1] To get your Leo ex to notice you after a breakup, show up at a place he likes while you’re all dressed up, or post photos of yourself looking gorgeous on social media. Seeing you all done up could spark his interest and get him thinking about you again! 
Leos are attracted to extraversion and pure fun. Prove to your Leo man that he’s missing out by showing him what a good time you two could be having. Throw a party with your friends, plan an outdoor adventure, or go to a karaoke night. And of course, make sure to snap some photos and share them on social media so your ex can see. A Leo man seeks enthusiasm and energy in his partner, so he’ll immediately start missing your fun vibes.[4] 
Keep your mutual friends updated about your life. Leos tend to be the leaders in friend groups, and they love to stay up-to-date on the latest drama.[6] If you maintain your friendships with your mutual friends, they’ll likely talk about you while he’s around, and your Leo ex will probably jump at the chance to get some insider info on how you're doing. Those conversations might bring up memories of your relationship that’ll make him wish you were still in his life. 
Work on your self-esteem to get your Leo ex to miss you. Leos are powerful and confident–and they want a partner who can keep up with that inner strength.[7] Breakups are the worst, but try to look at this time apart as an opportunity to pursue your own passions and reconnect with what makes you feel empowered. The next time your Leo ex sees you, he’ll be stunned by your confidence and independence, and it’ll make him want you more! 
When you radiate positive energy, your Leo man will notice! Leos tend to be pretty optimistic people, so it’s no surprise that they’re attracted to genuine inner happiness.[10] The next time you see your ex, act upbeat, smile, and highlight things you’re grateful for in your life. Your optimistic vibes will be infectious, which can help you win him over again. 
Use this strategy for a haughty Leo who thrives off attention. Leos care a lot about their reputation and being the center of attention.[12] Ignoring him for a little bit might make him miss the attention you used to give him, which might push him to seek you out again. Just don’t rely on this strategy for too long, or his wounded pride might make him push you away even further.[13] After all, Leos secretly crave deep connection. A week or two of distancing yourself should do the trick! 
Leos are the ultimate protectors. Even if you’re broken up, your Leo man might still feel a responsibility to help keep you safe and happy. While it’s important not to take advantage of him, you can try asking your Leo ex to help you with something small–even a restaurant recommendation or a piece of advice. His instincts as a leader and protector may fire up and make him miss you.[15] 
Deep down, Leos want real love and genuine connection. They may be the life of the party and act like they’re invincible, but the truth is they want to be accepted for who they are.[16] Draw your Leo ex in by being kind and showing him that you’re still there as a friend. Genuinely caring about him will make him miss the emotional connection you once had. 
Add a little flattery when you interact with your ex. Leos like to be treated with respect and even reverence.[18] Remind your Leo you were good for him by pointing out his strengths and appeal to his vanity a bit by complimenting his physical appearance. These types of compliments go a long way when it comes to reigniting his interest! 
Draw him back by reminding him how beautiful your future could be. Instead of thinking negatively or hopelessly about your relationship, focus on how you could make it work if you got back together. Mention the things the two of you have in common, the amazing memories you share, and the ways you’ve each grown since the breakup.[19] When he sees all the positive things about your connection laid out, he might be able to envision that beautiful future, too. 
Leos don’t like being told what to do. Instead, they value the ability to control their own destinies and make their own choices.[21] Even though it’s tough, be patient during the break up. Once your Leo ex misses you enough, you can start indirectly hinting at getting back together. 
You'll hurt your Leo if you betray his loyalty. It might be tempting to flaunt a new romantic relationship in front of your Leo ex, but that likely won’t make him miss you—it will just wound his pride and make him view you negatively, which can then hurt your chances of getting back together.[22] 
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