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This article was co-authored by Olivia Woodford and by wikiHow staff writer, Luke Smith, MFA. Olivia Woodford is a Holy Bible Expert and the Founder of Bible Women Speak. Olivia has been teaching biblical stories of women through theater since 1992. She is a member of Biblical Storytellers International and has performed at and hosted learning retreats with churches, schools, and women's groups of all denominations throughout the United States, Canada, and New Zealand. Olivia has a BFA in Theater Arts from Boston University. There are 9 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page. This article has been fact-checked, ensuring the accuracy of any cited facts and confirming the authority of its sources. This article has been viewed 590,554 times.

So you’ve decided to become a nun! That’s a big step in life, and deepening your devotion to your faith while living in a community of like-minded women is an exciting prospect. You probably know by now that there’s a little more to it than filling out an application and buying the robes, but the journey is just as important as the destination. But how do you start that journey? We’ll help you get familiar with the prerequisites, understand the discernment process, and outline the official path of formation, so that you know all you need to know to start the next step on your spiritual path.

How do you become a nun?

  1. Be a female baptized Christian who is at least 18 years old.
  2. Be single or widowed with no dependent children.
  3. Talk to nuns to learn more about their vocation and daily lives.
  4. Apply to become a pre-postulate and take temporary vows.
  5. Take your final vows to fully commit to life as a nun.

Steps

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Fulfilling the Requirements

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  1. Step 1 Get baptized as a Christian. 1 Get baptized as a Christian.[1] Most religious orders of nuns require their candidates to be baptized as a Roman Catholic.[2] Baptism initiates a person into the Catholic faith, preparing them for a host of possible vocations. After baptism, you’ll receive other sacraments, like taking communion or getting confirmed, which affirms your faith as a Catholic.
    • While most orders are Catholic, there are orders of other Christian denominations, like Protestant, Anglican, or Orthodox nuns.[3] Whichever order you choose, you must be baptized in the according denomination.
    • You don’t need to get baptized to become a Buddhist nun, and the process is much the same as becoming a Buddhist monk.
  2. Step 2 Live as a single, widowed, or annulled woman. 2 Live as a single, widowed, or annulled woman. In order to be considered for life in a convent, you must be a woman who doesn’t have any outstanding vows. This means you must either be unmarried, or your married partner has passed away. If you’re divorced, speak with a priest to have your marriage annulled, which is a process that dismisses marriage vows in the eyes of the Catholic Church.[4]
    • According to the Catholic Church, nuns have a primary relationship with God, meaning they can’t have vows to other people, which might get in the way of their devotion.
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  3. Step 3 Be either 18 or 21 years old. 3 Be either 18 or 21 years old. In the past, many nuns joined convents at very young ages. Nowadays, most orders have stricter rules. Typically you’ll have to wait until you’re either 18 or 21 years old. In addition, many orders have maximum age requirements, which typically fall between 40-50 years old.[5]
    • In general, most religious communities encourage their members to have some type of college education. Having at least a BA is preferable, but not necessary. Life experience, including professional experience, is also a plus.
    • There are no particular certifications or licenses you need to become a nun, other than being of-age.
  4. Step 4 Raise your children until they’re independent. 4 Raise your children until they’re independent. If you have children, they need to have left home. Plenty of nuns do have children, but your obligations to your children typically can’t interfere with your obligations to God and the convent. Most orders require your kids to be older than 18.
  5. Step 5 Practice good physical... 5 Practice good physical and mental health. It might seem surprising, but most orders look for candidates who can devote both their mind and body to the lifestyle. As a nun, you may have to do physical labor or mental tasks like teaching. What good health looks like varies from convent to convent, but you’ll generally need to be able-bodied and without any debilitating mental illnesses.[6]
    • If you have any doubts, contact a member of your desired community to discuss. Some may make exceptions for enthusiastic candidates.
    • Many convents also require that their candidates pay off their financial debts, so that the convent doesn’t assume any existing debts.
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Discerning Your Vocation

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  1. Step 1 Pray and ask God to reveal your vocation. 1 Pray and ask God to reveal your vocation. The first thing most nuns will tell you to do is pray. Becoming a nun is a huge decision, and every nun makes that choice after a whole lot of prayer. Contemplate your spiritual life and ask yourself what you want to accomplish as a nun, why you want to become one, and if it’s the best thing for your spiritual development.[7]
    • An answer may not come immediately, or even clearly, and that’s okay! Keep praying while you move forward; you may receive your answer later in the process.
  2. Step 2 Speak to a trusted family member, friend, or spiritual mentor. 2 Speak to a trusted family member, friend, or spiritual mentor. While becoming a nun is a decision you make for yourself, it’s not one you have to make alone. Talk to someone close to you and tell them you’re considering a more religious life. Ask for their advice—Do they see this as a good option for you? Will they be there to support you as you move forward? An outside voice can be a huge boon during this process.[8]
  3. Step 3 Work with a vocation director to find a community for you. 3 Work with a vocation director to find a community for you. Use an online tool like NCDVD Vocation Director Locator to find resources near you. A vocation director is a specialized advisor that helps prospective religious people explore their options. A vocation director will connect you to religious communities, help you discern your calling, and guide you through the initiation process.[9] They’ll also help you decide which kind of spiritual community is right for you:
    • Contemplative communities (nuns) focus on prayer. Their lifestyles are more serene, meditative, and insular than their apostolic counterparts.
    • Traditional apostolic communities (sisters) work in education and healthcare. Many sisters can be found teaching in area schools or helping at hospitals and other healthcare facilities.
    • Non-traditional communities (laypeople) also do service for others, but can be found working with the homeless, incarcerated, or those with HIV/AIDS.
  4. Step 4 Talk to nuns to learn more about their daily lives. 4 Talk to nuns to learn more about their daily lives. Contact your local priest and ask him to connect you with a local convent or spiritual community to inquire about vocational life. The more mentors you can get a hold of, the better. And since every religious community is different, you'll gain a clearer understanding of what it's like to live as a member of that particular community.
    • Many religious communities have websites that give an overview of their activities and lifestyles. Search the internet for a community near you, and take advantage of any contact information listed on their site.
    • Alternatively, browse a database like Cloistered Life to learn more about active communities.
  5. Step 5 Look into communities that offer careers based on your interests. 5 Look into communities that offer careers based on your interests. Cloistered communities don’t typically have “jobs” per se, but might do things like sell honey or home-grown crops to support themselves. Apostolic communities, like the Dominican sisters, typically teach in schools or provide other public services.[10] Different communities might place you in different jobs, so consider what kind of work you might want to do (or not do) as a nun.
    • Usually, nuns don’t make their own money and are supported by the convent. Some communities, however, might offer their members a modest stipend.
  6. Step 6 Attend a retreat or an open house at a religious community. 6 Attend a retreat or an open house at a religious community. A glimpse inside the walls of a convent will give you a much fuller picture of what your life there may look like. Find an open house or community outreach day to attend to learn more about any given spiritual community, and if their way of life is right for you.[11]
    • The Institute on Religious Life lists upcoming retreats and social opportunities for a number of religious communities, and provides a number of other discernment tools, as well.
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Taking Vows

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  1. Step 1 Apply to a community that you connect with to become a pre-postulate. 1 Apply to a community that you connect with to become a pre-postulate. Once you’ve decided that life as a sister or nun is right for you, work with your vocation advisor to submit an application to your desired community, or submit an enquiry via the community’s mailing address or web page. The application process is different for every order, but by now you’ll have interacted with the order enough to have a firm grasp of it.
    • During your pre-postulancy, both parties will work together to more seriously explore if the community is a good fit for the candidate with events like interviews and retreats.
    • The time frame for this process varies by order, and can take anywhere from 2 weeks to a few years.
  2. Step 2 Enter the postulate stage to start living with the community. 2 Enter the postulate stage to start living with the community. After the order has decided you’re a good fit, they’ll invite you to become a formal candidate. In this stage, candidates live and work part-time with the spiritual community, but still maintain their outside life.[12]
    • The candidacy process usually lasts 6 months to 2 years. At any time in the process, either you or the order can choose to part ways.
    • After this stage, you’ll have another opportunity to either keep moving forward, or part ways with the community if it doesn’t feel right for you.
  3. Step 3 Enter the novitiate to learn about the vows the community takes. 3 Enter the novitiate to learn about the vows the community takes. At this stage, you live, pray, and work full-time within the community. You earn the title “Novice” or “Sister,” and undergo at least 1 year of intense prayer and study to learn more about the vows a fully-fledged member makes to decide if they’re right for you.
    • Some congregations of sisters ask a Novice to choose a saint's name, upon taking your public vows, but not all. You may also keep your Baptismal name.
  4. Step 4 Take your temporary vows to make another step into the community. 4 Take your temporary vows to make another step into the community. A junior religious sister takes temporary vows that are renewed each year until they take their full, final vows. These temporary vows include a vow of poverty, chastity, and obedience, as well as whatever else the particular order specifies.[13]
    • This stage can last for several years; it’s up to the leaders of the order to decide when a junior sister is ready for full vows.
    • These vows mean that a junior sister won’t have her own money, will abstain from sex, and will follow the teachings of Catholicism as closely as possible.
    • Upon taking temporary vows, junior sisters of many orders cut their hair short, wear full religious garb, and name themselves after a saint.
  5. Step 5 Take your final vows to become a fully-fledged sister. 5 Take your final vows to become a fully-fledged sister. If both you and your religious leader have decided you’re a good fit for the community, it’s time to take your perpetual vows. These are similar to temporary vows, except, as the name implies, are permanent. You’ll have a full ceremony in which you’re given your proper religious clothes and renew your commitment to the community.
    • There are a couple of exceptions to this style of vows: the Jesuits' first vows are their final vows and the Sisters of Charity only ever take renewable vows.[14]
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  • Question Can I become a nun, in any denomination, if I have tattoos? wikiHow Staff Editor wikiHow Staff Editor Staff Answer This answer was written by one of our trained team of researchers who validated it for accuracy and comprehensiveness. wikiHow Staff Editor wikiHow Staff Editor Staff Answer While it may be a topic of concern for the order you want to join, it may or may not interfere with your eligibility. You'll need to converse with the religious leader to discuss if the tattoos will be a problem. Most likely, your vestments will cover them up anyway! Thanks! We're glad this was helpful. Thank you for your feedback. If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow Yes No Not Helpful 3 Helpful 14
  • Question I am a 14 year old girl aspiring to be a nun, but since I'm too young I was wondering if there were any ways I could help the community or do things to prepare myself? wikiHow Staff Editor wikiHow Staff Editor Staff Answer This answer was written by one of our trained team of researchers who validated it for accuracy and comprehensiveness. wikiHow Staff Editor wikiHow Staff Editor Staff Answer There are many! Contact the religious order you'd like to join and ask if they have any classes or recommended reading for prospective members, and ask if they have any volunteer opportunities. You can also volunteer at charities or church events to help your community and deepen your faith in the meantime. Thanks! We're glad this was helpful. Thank you for your feedback. If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow Yes No Not Helpful 3 Helpful 24
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  1. ↑ Olivia Woodford. Holy Bible Expert. Expert Interview
  2. ↑ https://catholicsbible.com/how-do-you-become-a-nun-in-the-catholic-church/
  3. ↑ https://content.time.com/time/subscriber/article/0,33009,827957,00.html
  4. ↑ https://catholicsbible.com/how-do-you-become-a-nun-in-the-catholic-church/
  5. ↑ https://catholicsbible.com/how-do-you-become-a-nun-in-the-catholic-church/
  6. ↑ https://cloisteredlife.com/blog/i-want-to-be-a-nun-but-i-lack-physical-or-mental-health-what-does-that-mean-for-my-life
  7. ↑ https://cloisteredlife.com/vocation
  8. ↑ https://cloisteredlife.com/vocation
  9. ↑ https://www.ncdvd.org/find-a-vocation-director/
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  1. ↑ https://www.sistersofmary.org/apostolate/catholic-education/
  2. ↑ https://cloisteredlife.com/vocation
  3. ↑ https://www.globalsistersreport.org/steps-and-stages-formation-process-women-religious
  4. ↑ https://www.catholicculture.org/culture/library/dictionary/index.cfm?id=36797
  5. ↑ https://www.globalsistersreport.org/steps-and-stages-formation-process-women-religious

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Olivia Woodford Co-authored by: Olivia Woodford Holy Bible Expert This article was co-authored by Olivia Woodford and by wikiHow staff writer, Luke Smith, MFA. Olivia Woodford is a Holy Bible Expert and the Founder of Bible Women Speak. Olivia has been teaching biblical stories of women through theater since 1992. She is a member of Biblical Storytellers International and has performed at and hosted learning retreats with churches, schools, and women's groups of all denominations throughout the United States, Canada, and New Zealand. Olivia has a BFA in Theater Arts from Boston University. This article has been viewed 590,554 times. 11 votes - 100% Co-authors: 48 Updated: August 28, 2025 Views: 590,554 Categories: Careers in Christianity Article SummaryX

If you want to become a nun, start by talking to other nuns in your parish to find out more about the communities you could join. If you don't have any contact with nuns, visit your local church and inquire with the priest. Next, attend a religious weekend at a Mother House, which you can do by browsing the events listed at the Institute of Religious Life's website. When you're ready to choose a community, contact them and start participating in activities, work through the candidacy process, and enter the novitiate. To learn how to become a buddhist nun, read on! Did this summary help you?YesNo

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