9 Ways To Have A Hands-Free Orgasm - Refinery29

Skip navigation!ADVERTISEMENTStory from Health & WellnessADVERTISEMENT9 Ways To Have A Hands-Free OrgasmErika W. SmithLast Updated September 30, 2019, 1:57 PM Photographed By Lula Hyers. There are many different kinds of orgasms: squirting orgasms, “nipplegasms,” even accidental orgasms. In fact, there are so many ways to come that you don’t even need to use your hands to do it. While your fingers can certainly help you come, maybe today, you just don’t want to get them involved. You might have just gotten a fresh mani but then suddenly felt the urge to masturbate. Or you might want your hands tied behind your back for some kinky fun. Whatever your reasons, there are many ways to come without using your hands. Here are some of them.AdvertisementADVERTISEMENT

Find A Partner

You don’t need to use your own hands if your partner is using theirs — or their mouth. Have your partner tie your hands together, or simply hold onto your bed frame for a hands-off experience.

Use A Sex Toy

There are several hands-free vibrators on the market, such as Dame’s Eva II, which stays in place on your clit thanks to two “arms” that go under your labia. If you don't want to buy a new toy, you can turn on a larger vibrator, such as a Magic Wand, place it on your bed, and straddle it. Dame ProductsEva IiBUY$135.00Dame ProductsMagic WandMagic WandBUY$59.95BabelandLELOTiani™ 2BUY$99.00$159.00LELO

Dry Hump Someone

Similarly, you can straddle your partner and dry hump their penis, strap-on, pubic mound, or thigh — or any other part of their body that feels good.

… Or Something

Remember what masturbation was like before you discovered sex toys? Grab a pillow or a stuffed animal, straddle it, and enjoy.

Have A Fantasy

Some people can think themselves to orgasm, so close your eyes and imagine your dirtiest fantasy — and try not to touch yourself.

Get In The Bathtub

Lie down in the tub and scoot your butt up against the side, so your vulva is positioned right under the faucet. The flow of the water might bring you to orgasm — just make sure you test the temperature before you get under.AdvertisementADVERTISEMENT

Try For A “Coregasm”

Some people have spontaneous orgasms while working out — sometimes called “coregasms.” While these can happen during any exercise, people report it most often during abdominal exercises, followed by weight-lifting, yoga, bicycling, and running.

Get Erotic Hypnosis

Some people report experiencing mind-blowing orgasms while under erotic hypnosis, which is exactly what it sounds like: a trained hypnotist helps you experience your fantasies through mind control.

Go To Sleep

If all that doesn’t work, take a nap — because people of all genders can orgasm in their sleep. Thinking sexy thoughts before you nod off might make this more likely to happen. If you wake up still sexually frustrated, it might be time to put your hands back in the game. AdvertisementADVERTISEMENT RelationshipsI’m A Single Mom — & I’m Dating For The First Time Since I Lost M...In 2008, I married the love of my life. In 2019, I downloaded my first dating app. In the years in between, I built a life with a man who made everything bby Elaine RothDating AdviceIn The Era Of Online Dating, Why Are We Still So Obsessed With Me...If this were a ‘90s rom-com, and I were a beloved (relatable) Hollywood starlet, the mediocre airport bar from which I am writing would make for a superbby Eliza DumaisDedicated FeatureI Asked My “Pandemic Boyfriend” 29 Questions About Da...I met my boyfriend in the midst of a pandemic — so, as you can imagine, the context for our courtship was particularly unique. We crossed paths during thby Annie RauwerdaAdvertisementADVERTISEMENTDealsThese 9 Pre-Boxing Day Sex Toys Sales Offer Very Pleasurable Savingsby Nichole JankowskiSingle FilesNow That My Kids Are Grown, I’m Learning To Love Being SingleIt is 4:54 p.m. on a bleak Wednesday in November. I’m walking back home after hiking to the lake down the road, an audiobook in my ears to protect me froby Jennifer McGuireWellnessWhat Happens When A Breakup Becomes Depression?Truthfully, I don’t remember how I’ve gotten through most of my breakups. That’s because they made me so depressed that I spent them watcby Sarah JacobyRelationship AdviceCan It Be ‘Too Soon’ To Meet Someone’s Parents?Your partner has impressed all your friends, charmed your coworkers with their social grace, and even bonded with your sibling that one time. In theory, thby Cory StiegLiving9 Love Superstitions To Laugh At (Or Stress Over)by Sara CoughlinQueer VoicesHow 10 People Knew They Were Bisexualby Cory StiegRelationships3 Types Of Infidelity You Never Knew Existedby Kasandra BrabawOnline DatingThese Are The Dating Trends To Look Out For In 2022When it comes to dating apps, it pays to be as clued up as possible. That way, you can avoid all the worst dating trends like benching and that old holidayby Nick LevineWellnessOur 30-Day Masturbation Challenge Is About To Change Your Sex Lif...by Hayley MacMillenAdvertisementADVERTISEMENTADVERTISEMENTADVERTISEMENT