Bipolar Disorder And Anger: Why It Happens And How To Cope

Healthline
  • Health Conditions

    Health Conditions

    All
    • Breast Cancer
    • Cancer Care
    • Caregiving for Alzheimer's Disease
    • Chronic Kidney Disease
    • Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease (COPD)
    • Digestive Health
    • Eye Health
    • Heart Health
    • Menopause
    • Mental Health
    • Migraine
    • Multiple Sclerosis (MS)
    • Parkinson’s Disease
    • Psoriasis
    • Rheumatoid Arthritis (RA)
    • Sleep Health
    • Type 2 Diabetes
    • Weight Management

    Condition Spotlight

    All
    • Controlling Ulcerative Colitis
    • Navigating Life with Bipolar Disorder
    • Mastering Geographic Atrophy
    • Managing Type 2 Diabetes
  • Wellness

    Wellness Topics

    All
    • CBD
    • Fitness
    • Healthy Aging
    • Hearing
    • Mental Well-Being
    • Nutrition
    • Parenthood
    • Recipes
    • Sexual Health
    • Skin Care
    • Sleep Health
    • Vitamins and Supplements
    • Women's Wellness

    Product Reviews

    All
    • At-Home Testing
    • Men's Health
    • Mental Health
    • Nutrition
    • Sleep
    • Vitamins and Supplements
    • Women's Health

    Featured Programs

    All
    • Your Guide to Glucose Health
    • Inflammation and Aging
    • Cold & Flu Season Survival Guide
    • She’s Good for Real
  • Tools

    Featured

    • Video Series
    • Pill Identifier
    • FindCare
    • Drugs A-Z
    • Medicare Plans by State

    Lessons

    All
    • Crohn’s and Ulcerative Colitis Essentials
    • Diabetes Nutrition
    • High Cholesterol
    • Taming Inflammation in Psoriasis
    • Taming Inflammation in Psoriatic Arthritis

    Newsletters

    All
    • Anxiety and Depression
    • Digestive Health
    • Heart Health
    • Migraine
    • Nutrition Edition
    • Type 2 Diabetes
    • Wellness Wire

    Lifestyle Quizzes

    • Find a Diet
    • Find Healthy Snacks
    • Weight Management
    • How Well Do You Sleep?
    • Are You a Workaholic?
  • Featured

    Health News

    All
    • Medicare 2026 Changes
    • Can 6-6-6 Walking Workout Help You Lose Weight?
    • This Couple Lost 118 Pounds Together Without Medication
    • 5 Science-Backed Ways to Live a Longer Life
    • Morning Coffee May Help You Live Longer

    This Just In

    • 5 Tips for a Healthy Lifestyle
    • How to Disinfect Your House After the Flu
    • Best Vegan and Plant-Based Meal Delivery for 2025
    • Does Medicare Cover Pneumonia Shots?
    • Chromosomes, Genetics, and Your Health

    Top Reads

    • Best Multivitamins for Women
    • Best Multivitamins for Men
    • Best Online Therapy Services
    • Online Therapy That Takes Insurance
    • Buy Ozempic Online
    • Mounjaro Overview

    Video Series

    • Youth in Focus
    • Healthy Harvest
    • Through an Artist's Eye
    • Future of Health
  • Connect

    Find Your Bezzy Community

    Bezzy communities provide meaningful connections with others living with chronic conditions. Join Bezzy on the web or mobile app.

    All
    • Breast Cancer
    • Multiple Sclerosis
    • Depression
    • Migraine
    • Type 2 Diabetes
    • Psoriasis

    Follow us on social media

    Can't get enough? Connect with us for all things health.

SubscribeExplore more in
  • Types
  • Symptoms
  • Treatment
  • Complications
  • Stages
  • Related Conditions
  • Causes & Risk Factors
  • Prognosis
  • Management
  • Home Remedies
  • Diet
  • Diagnosis
Bipolar

Related Topics

  • Types

    Types

    Related Articles

    • Type 1 vs. 2
    • Rapid Cycling Bipolar
    • High Functioning Bipolar
    • Severe Bipolar
    • In Teens
    • Mixed State Bipolar
    • Partial Bipolar
    • Postpartum Bipolar
    • Bipolar Spectrum
    • Treatment-Resistant Bipolar
    • Is it a Personality Disorder?
    • In Children
    • Later in Life
  • Symptoms

    Symptoms

    Related Articles

    • Bipolar Depression
    • Symptoms
    • Anger
    • Psychosis
    • Effects on Body
    • Eye Effects
    • Mania vs. Hypomania
    • Fatigue
    • Pressured Speech
    • Mania
    • Suicide Risk
    • Dysphoric Mania
    • Sundown Syndrome
    • Paranoia
    • Bipolar Dissociation
    • Flight of Ideas
    • Hallucinations
    • Delusions
    • Codependency
    • Lack of Empathy
    • Ultra-Rapid Cycling
    • Fear of Harm (FOH)
  • Treatment

    Treatment

    Related Articles

    • Treatment
    • Medications
    • Antidepressants
    • Vraylar
    • Hospitalization
    • Finding a Therapist
    • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
    • Supportive Therapy
    • Adderall
    • Low Dose Naltrexone (LDN)
    • Injections
    • Lithium
    • Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS)
    • Quetiapine
    • Electroconvulsive Therapy
  • Complications

    Complications

    Related Articles

    • Effects on Brain
    • Untreated Bipolar
    • Weight Loss from Medication
    • Medication Side Effects
    • Heart Problems
  • Stages

    Stages

    Related Articles

    • Stages
    • Euthymia
  • Related Conditions

    Related Conditions

    Related Articles

    • Link to Narcissism
    • Vs. Schizophrenia
    • Vs. PTSD
    • Vs. Borderline Personality Disorder
    • Vs. Schizoaffective Disorder
    • Vs. Cyclothymia
    • Vs. ADHD
    • Link to Epilepsy
    • Vs. Mood Swings
    • Schizoaffective Disorder Bipolar Type
    • Co-occurring OCD
    • Co-occurring Anxiety Disorders
    • Co-occurring Autism
    • Link to Binge Eating
    • Link to Alcohol Use Disorder
    • Link to Gambling
    • Link to Addiction
  • Causes & Risk Factors

    Causes & Risk Factors

    Related Articles

    • Abuse
    • Link to Steroid Use
    • Causes
    • Heredity
    • Risk Factors
  • Prognosis

    Prognosis

    Related Articles

    • Life Expectancy
    • Changes with Age
  • Management

    Management

    Related Articles

    • Management
    • In Relationships
    • Manic Episode End
    • Conflict Approaches
    • Sleep Tips
    • Seasonal Effects
    • Driving
    • Coping with Stigma
    • Talking to Loved Ones
    • Ending a Relationship
    • At Work
    • Mood Episode Triggers
    • Therapy Guide
    • Exercise
    • Meditation
    • Sexual Health
    • Disability Benefits
    • Caregiver Support
  • Home Remedies

    Home Remedies

    Related Articles

    • Home Remedies
    • L-Theanine
  • Diet

    Diet

    Related Articles

    • Diet
    • Keto Diet
  • Diagnosis

    Diagnosis

    Related Articles

    • Diagnosis
    • Misdiagnosis
    • Tests
    • Brain Scan
    • Blood Tests
    • Self Test
Everything to Know About Bipolar Disorder and AngerMedically reviewed by Nicole Washington, DO, MPHWritten by Kimberly Holland Updated on April 25, 2024
  • Bipolar disorder and anger
  • Is anger a side effect of medication?
  • Signs of uncontrolled anger
  • Tips for coping with anger
  • Tips for caregivers
  • Takeaway

People with bipolar disorder often experience irritability and restlessness, which some people may think is anger. Medication side effects can also contribute to perceptions of anger.

Bipolar disorder is a brain disorder that causes unexpected and often dramatic shifts in mood.

During what’s known as a manic period, these moods can be intense and euphoric. During a depressive period, they may leave you feeling sad and despairing. That’s why bipolar disorder is also sometimes called manic-depressive disorder.

The mood changes associated with bipolar disorder can cause changes in energy, too. These shifts can cause someone to feel more irritable or restless than usual, which may look like anger to someone else.

Here’s a closer look at anger’s role in bipolar disorder.

The link between bipolar disorder and anger

Anger isn’t a symptom of bipolar disorder. Others may perceive symptoms of mania and hypomania as anger.

According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, 5th Edition, text revision (DSM-5-TR), symptoms of manic or hypomanic episodes typically present with a persistently elevated or irritable mood.

Other symptoms include:

  • increased distractability
  • decreased need for sleep
  • excessive involvement in high risk activities, like spending sprees or business investments
  • being more talkative than usual or compulsions to talk more
  • psychomotor agitation, such as racing thoughts or fidgeting

Studies from 2012 and 2014 by some members of the same research team suggest that people with bipolar disorder show greater episodes of aggression than those without bipolar disorder.

A 2017 analysis of two clinical trials suggests nearly 62% of participants with bipolar disorder experienced irritability before starting treatment. In addition, they experienced agitation.

Is anger a side effect of medication used to treat bipolar disorder?

Prescription medication is one of the primary treatments for bipolar disorder.

Some people take mood stabilizers such as lithium (Lithobid). While anger isn’t a side effect of mood stabilizers, these medications can cause restlessness and agitation, which some people might interpret as anger.

Mood stabilizers can cause some uncomfortable symptoms, like constipation and dry mouth, which may contribute to irritability.

These effects are often the result of your body learning to adjust to the new chemicals. That’s why it’s important you continue taking your medication exactly as your doctor prescribes.

Even if new side effects occur, don’t stop taking your medication without first discussing it with your doctor. They may recommend adjusting your dose or suggest ways to manage side effects.

Signs of uncontrolled anger

Everyone gets upset from time to time. Anger is a typical reaction to a stressful or challenging event in a person’s life.

However, anger that’s uncontrollable or prevents you from interacting with another person can cause distress.

Here are some signs that irritability or anger may be affecting your life:

  • Your friends avoid you: Too many angry run-ins with friends may discourage them from inviting you to future events.
  • Your family and loved ones back down: Arguments are common, even within the most secure relationships. However, if you find your loved ones aren’t willing to engage in intense conversations with you, it may be because they do not understand your behavior and don’t know how to manage the conversation.
  • You’re reprimanded at work: If your behavior has led to a reprimand or counseling, it might be because your colleagues or manager do not understand how your condition affects your emotions and mood and misinterpret them as anger. However, it is important to learn how to effectively manage your emotions.

If you think a strong emotion is preventing you from having a good relationship with friends, loved ones, and colleagues, talking with a mental health professional can help

Take a healthy approach to anger management

If you’re experiencing anger or irritability, learning to manage your emotions can help improve your relationships with others and your overall quality of life.

The following steps may help you manage any shifts in emotions.

Identify your triggers

Some events, people, or requests can be upsetting and turn a good day into a bad one.

Try making a list of the triggers as they occur. This will help you understand what triggers your anger or upsets you most and help you recognize and manage them.

Take your medications

Well-managed bipolar disorder may cause fewer severe emotional shifts. Once you and your doctor decide on a treatment plan, stick to it. It can help you maintain even emotional states.

Talk with a therapist

In addition to medications, doctors often suggest people with bipolar disorder take part in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT).

CBT is a type of therapy that can help people with bipolar disorder express their thoughts, feelings, and concerns.

The goal is for you to learn to be productive despite the disorder and to find ways to cope with any lingering side effects or complications, whether from medication or the condition itself.

Harness the energy

When you sense yourself getting upset or frustrated, look for creative outlets that can help you harness the energy while avoiding an adverse interaction with another person.

This could include exercise, meditation, reading, or any other activity that helps you manage emotions more productively.

Lean into your support team

When you’re having a bad day or week, you need people you can turn to. Explain to your friends and family members that you’re working through the symptoms of bipolar disorder and need accountability.

Together, you can learn to manage this mood disorder.

How to be there for someone living with bipolar disorder

When a person has bipolar disorder, their emotional shifts may seem very unexpected to you. The highs and lows may take a toll.

Learning to anticipate and react to these changes can help people with bipolar disorder, as well as their loved ones, cope with the emotional changes.

Here are a few strategies to keep in mind.

Don’t back down

If you’ve been dealing with your loved one’s bursts of anger and irritability over a long period, you may be tired and unwilling to put up a fight.

Instead, ask your loved one to visit a therapist with you so the two of you can learn ways to communicate more clearly when emotions are high.

Remember, they’re not necessarily angry at you

It can be easy to feel that the anger attack is about something you did or said. If you can’t pinpoint a reason for their anger, take a step back. Ask them what they’re upset about, and go from there.

Engage positively

Ask your loved one about their experiences. Be willing to listen and be open.

Sometimes, explaining what they’re experiencing can help them cope better with their mood shifts and allow them to communicate through them.

Look for a community of support

Ask your loved one’s doctor or therapist for recommendations for groups you could join or professionals you could see. You need support, too.

Help them stick to treatment

The key to treatment for bipolar disorder is consistency.

Help ensure that your loved one is taking their medication and following through with other treatments when and how they’re supposed to. If they’re not, encourage them to talk with their doctor about finding a treatment that works better for them.

The bottom line

Bipolar disorder can cause a range of symptoms that resemble anger, especially during manic or hypomanic episodes. Restlessness caused by excess energy may come off as aggression or irritability to others.

Keep in mind that medication side effects can also cause restlessness and other uncomfortable symptoms that might contribute to anger.

 

How we reviewed this article:

SourcesHistoryHealthline has strict sourcing guidelines and relies on peer-reviewed studies, academic research institutions, and medical journals and associations. We only use quality, credible sources to ensure content accuracy and integrity. You can learn more about how we ensure our content is accurate and current by reading our editorial policy.
  • Ballester J, et al. (2012). Is bipolar disorder specifically associated with aggression?https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3342837/
  • Ballester J, et al. (2014). Prospective longitudinal course of aggression among adults with bipolar disorder.https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4013217
  • Bipolar disorder. (2024).https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/bipolar-disorder/index.shtml
  • Jain A, et al. (2023). Bipolar disorder.https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK558998/
  • Speirs B, et al. (2023) The lived experience of caring for someone with bipolar disorder: A qualitative study.https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9851531/
  • Suppes T, et al. (2017). Anxiety, irritability, and agitation as indicators of bipolar mania with depressive symptoms: A post hoc analysis of two clinical trials.https://journalbipolardisorders.springeropen.com/articles/10.1186/s40345-017-0103-7

Share this article

Medically reviewed by Nicole Washington, DO, MPHWritten by Kimberly Holland Updated on April 25, 2024

related stories

  • What Is Bipolar Depression?
  • Living with Bipolar Disorder: Tracye's Story
  • Exploring the Relationship Between Nightmares and Bipolar Disorder
  • U.S. Depression Rates Remain Historically High, New Gallup Poll Shows
  • How Long Do Bipolar II Episodes Last?

Read this next

  • What Is Bipolar Depression?Medically reviewed by Nicole Washington, DO, MPH

    Bipolar depression has the same symptoms of major depression, but is accompanied by mania or hypomania.

    READ MORE
  • Living with Bipolar Disorder: Tracye's Story

    Tracye Bergeron shares her journey from a conflicting diagnosis to eventual acceptance of bipolar disorder.

    READ MORE
  • Exploring the Relationship Between Nightmares and Bipolar DisorderMedically reviewed by Nicole Washington, DO, MPH

    Living with bipolar disorder can make sleep challenging. Understanding how your moods impact your dreams can encourage more restful, restorative sleep.

    READ MORE
  • U.S. Depression Rates Remain Historically High, New Gallup Poll Shows

    A new Gallup poll reports that over 18% of U.S. adults have or are being treated for depression. Depression rates have been at a historical high since…

    READ MORE
  • How Long Do Bipolar II Episodes Last?

    Bipolar II episodes can last a few days to several months, but with proper treatment, their duration can be significantly reduced.

    READ MORE
  • Hidden in Plain Sight: The Subtle Signs of Mental Health Relapse

    Podcast host and mental health advocate Gabe Howard opens up about a recent relapse and the importance of recognizing early warning signs, having a…

    READ MORE
  • Bipolar Disorder Mood Tracking: Benefits and How It Works

    Mood tracking can be a helpful strategy to manage or even help prevent bipolar disorder symptoms.

    READ MORE
  • What Happens If You Abruptly Stop Your Bipolar Disorder Medication?

    Speaking with a doctor before making changes to your treatment plan for bipolar disorder is critical. Here's why.

    READ MORE
  • Are Benzodiazepines Used to Treat Bipolar Disorder?

    Benzodiazepines aren't part of first-line treatment for bipolar disorder, but your doctor may prescribe them for off-label use. Here's what to know…

    READ MORE
  • How the DSM Guides Bipolar Disorder DiagnosisMedically reviewed by Nicole Washington, DO, MPH

    The DSM provides clear criteria for diagnosing different types of bipolar disorder, helping mental health professionals ensure consistency in care.

    READ MORE

Tag » Why Do Bipolar Blame Others