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This article was co-authored by Adrian Tandez and by wikiHow staff writer, Hunter Rising. Adrian Tandez is a Martial Arts and Self-Defense Specialist based in Mountain View, California. He is the founder, owner, and head instructor of the Warrior Combat Arts Academy, a world-renowned self-defense training center. He started the academy in 2005. Adrian has earned the titles of Guro (teacher in Filipino) and SiFu (master in Cantonese) from his certifications and years of martial arts training. Trained under the renowned martial artist Dan Inosanto, Adrian is a certified instructor in Bruce Lee's Jeet Kune Do, Filipino Martial Arts, and Silat, among other things. He has had over 30 years of martial arts experience. There are 9 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page. This article has been fact-checked, ensuring the accuracy of any cited facts and confirming the authority of its sources. This article has been viewed 1,514,288 times.

While it’s usually best to avoid fighting someone else, there may be times where you don’t have any other options except throwing a few punches. If you get into a fist fight and you’re not able to get out of it, there are techniques that you can use to improve your chances of winning. Practice throwing different punches so you can get better offensively, and keep your arms up so you’re ready to block your opponent. With a bit of knowledge and practice, you’ll be able to hold your own in most fights.

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  1. Step 1 Get into an... 1 Get into an active stance so you can move around easily. Keep most of your weight on the balls of your feet and bend your knees slightly so you’re able to move around quickly. Turn your body to the side so your dominant side is furthest from your opponent. Keep your hands level with your cheeks so you’re able to throw punches quickly while also being able to defend yourself.[1]
    • You can choose to keep your hands in open palms or make fists in your neutral stance.
    • Avoid tensing your body up since you won’t be able to maneuver as effectively.
    • You may also stand with your dominant side closest to your opponent, but you may not be able to throw a punch as well.
  2. Step 2 Make tight fists... 2 Make tight fists that are in line with your elbows when you punch. Curl your fingers so the tips dig into the center of your palm. Try to make the front of your fist as flat as you’re able so you don’t hurt yourself when you throw a punch. Wrap your thumb around the bottom of your fist and apply pressure to make your fist tighter. Keep the back of your hand in a straight line with your forearm to keep the wrist locked.
    • Don’t wrap your fingers around your thumb since you may end up hurting yourself when you throw a punch.
    • Avoid bending your wrist when you make a fist or else your punch won’t be as powerful when it lands and you could get a sprain.
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  3. Step 3 Aim for vulnerable areas to hurt your opponent more. 3 Aim for vulnerable areas to hurt your opponent more. The most vulnerable places on the face include the eyes, ears, and nose. If you want the fight to end quickly, direct your punches toward these areas to hurt your opponent and make them less able to fight back effectively. If you have trouble hitting your opponent in the face, try going for their neck or throat to stun them.[2]
    • You should always respect your opponent - don't use any dishonorable tricks, don't fight dirty and never attack them from behind. Make sure it's a fair fight.
    • Try kicking your opponent in the crotch or their knees to help take them down faster so you’re able to get away.
  4. Step 4 Throw a jab... 4 Throw a jab with the arm that’s furthest from your opponent. Start by holding your fists up so they’re level with your cheeks. When you throw the punch, quickly extend your dominant arm and twist your palm so it faces down. As your arm goes forward, rotate your dominant shoulder forward to get more power from your punch. Aim for your opponent’s nose, eyes, or jaw to stun them.[3]
    • Alternate which hand you jab with to get off multiple, rapid hits.
    • Keep your other hand in front of your face so you can block your opponent if they try to hit you.

    Tip: Exhale quickly as you throw you punch to help increase the speed and keep you feeling loose.

  5. Step 5 Practice throwing hooks... 5 Practice throwing hooks so your opponent doesn’t see the punch. Hooks are powerful punches that you throw from the side to catch your opponent off guard. Aim for your opponent’s cheek or jaw when you throw the punch. Make sure to lock your wrist so the back of your hand stays in line with your elbow to get the most power.[4]
    • Put your hands up with open palms to make it look like you don’t want to fight anymore before throwing a hook with the arm you have out in front. This can be a great way to surprise your opponent and stun them.
  6. Step 6 Try a headbutt to stun your opponent. 6 Try a headbutt to stun your opponent. If you’re close enough to your opponent, you may be able to land a headbutt in order to daze them. Quickly tilt your neck back before slamming it forward into your opponent’s nose or the space between their eyes. Use the top of your forehead since it’s the strongest spot and will hurt you the least.[5]
    • Headbutts are illegal in most official fights, such as mixed martial arts.
    • Headbutting someone could also knock them unconscious.
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  1. Step 1 Watch your opponent so you can anticipate their movements. 1 Watch your opponent so you can anticipate their movements. Always keep your eyes on your opponent, specifically watching their eyes and their arms. Pay attention to their movements so you can guess where they plan on punching you. If you need to look somewhere else, quickly glance away before returning your gaze back to your opponent.[6]
    • While it’s important to always watch your opponent, be aware of your surroundings so you don’t get backed into a corner or trip on something.
  2. Step 2 Stand with your body turned to the side so you’re harder to hit. 2 Stand with your body turned to the side so you’re harder to hit. Stand so the non-dominant side of your body faces your opponent with your shoulder out in front. Keep your chest and hips facing toward the side since that gives your opponent fewer opportunities to punch you. Shift your weight onto the balls of your feet so you can easily move around and dodge hits if you need to.[7]
    • Avoid standing with your body square to your opponent since they will easily be able to punch your chest or stomach.
    • Crouch down slightly to make it more difficult for your opponent to hit you. However, keep in mind that when you’re crouched, your opponent may be able to kick or knee you in the face easier.
  3. Step 3 Guard your face... 3 Guard your face with your hands and arms so you can block punches. Keep your hands up near your cheeks so you can react quickly when they throw a punch. When you see a punch coming toward your head, raise your forearms in front of your face to block their fist easier. Tense up your arms to brace yourself better and prevent them from making solid contact.[8]
    • Make sure you’re still able to see your opponent while you’re blocking or else they could get a punch off that you aren’t expecting.
    • Tuck your head down when you’re expecting a punch to help protect sensitive areas, like your eyes and nose.
  4. Step 4 Push your opponent away to get more distance between you. 4 Push your opponent away to get more distance between you. When your opponent is in between punches or after you land a punch, open your fists and push your opponent away as hard as you can. This can help you get back into an optimal stance and prepare for the next punch while your opponent tries to recover.[9]
    • Aim to push your opponent by their shoulders or chest so you can throw them off balance.
    • Take the opportunity while your opponent’s trying to recover to land another punch so you can get a leg up on the fight.
  5. Step 5 Roll your body away from a punch to help deflect it. 5 Roll your body away from a punch to help deflect it. You won’t be able to block every hit, so you will have to take a few punches. When you get hit, twist your body in the direction your opponent’s punching so you don’t get hit as hard and their fist rolls off your body. Always turn your body away from the hit rather than into it, or else you’ll get hurt more often during the fight.[10]
    • If you’re unable to turn away completely, you may try ducking from side to side to make it harder for your opponent to hit you.

    Tip: If your opponent aims for your head and you can’t move it out of the way, bring your chin closer to your chest so your opponent punches the hard part of your forehead. It will still hurt, but it won’t hurt as much as getting hit in the face.

  6. Step 6 Never run away like a coward. 6 Never run away like a coward. Instead, talk your opponent out of fighting and convince them to change their life - they may even become your friend in the future, so be respectful.[11]
    • It’s okay to yell out or call for help if you need it. Contact police or law enforcement if you’re worried about your safety after the fight.
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  • Question Should you hit first in a fight? Adrian Tandez Adrian Tandez Jeet Kune Do Instructor Adrian Tandez is a Martial Arts and Self-Defense Specialist based in Mountain View, California. He is the founder, owner, and head instructor of the Warrior Combat Arts Academy, a world-renowned self-defense training center. He started the academy in 2005. Adrian has earned the titles of Guro (teacher in Filipino) and SiFu (master in Cantonese) from his certifications and years of martial arts training. Trained under the renowned martial artist Dan Inosanto, Adrian is a certified instructor in Bruce Lee's Jeet Kune Do, Filipino Martial Arts, and Silat, among other things. He has had over 30 years of martial arts experience. Adrian Tandez Adrian Tandez Jeet Kune Do Instructor Expert Answer First of all, do your best to get out of the situation and avoid the fight. Run, escape, just don't be there. But if this is not possible and you are forced to fight, then before they get too close to hurt you, you have to intercept them by striking first. Thanks! We're glad this was helpful. Thank you for your feedback. If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow Yes No Not Helpful 104 Helpful 237
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  • Avoid running or moving around too quickly since you can run out of breath and be less effective in a fight. Thanks Helpful 28 Not Helpful 2
  • Do you best to stay upright while you’re fighting. If you get knocked down, protect your head as much as possible to avoid getting hurt more. Thanks Helpful 30 Not Helpful 3

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  • Sometimes you will get hit hard in the head and hear ringing. If this happens, do whatever it takes not to fall to the ground. If you do fall, get back up as soon as you can. If it's not possible to get up, pull your knees into your stomach and duck your head.
  • If your opponent is kneeling over you and beating the living daylights out of you, try to squirm your arms under their legs. Then, if you are strong enough, lift them up and off of you, which will literally throw them backwards.
  • You should always watch the eyes of your opponent to see where they will strike net. Making eye contact also shows your opponent that you are confident, which might make them afraid of you.
  • Shout out angrily and use mean facial expressions to scare your opponent. Look and act angry, not afraid. If your opponent thinks you're angry and fearless, they will fear you.
  • Always keep one hand (the one you're not punching with) close to your face, ready to block a punch instead of being unprepared.
  • Keep your fists straight while fighting. The wrong fist position can hurt your fingers.
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Warnings

  • Don’t start a fight unless you absolutely need to. Fist fights can get you in trouble with law enforcement if they’re done for reasons outside of self-defense. Always try to call for help or get away if you’re able. Thanks Helpful 96 Not Helpful 20
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References

  1. ↑ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XnR69Yt7z98
  2. ↑ https://www.englandboxing.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/EB_Boxing-Coaching-Handbook-Part-1_v8-002.pdf
  3. ↑ https://www.activesgcircle.gov.sg/learn/boxing/boxing-movements-punches
  4. ↑ https://www.infighting.ca/kickboxing/boxing-basics-how-to-throw-the-perfect-hook/
  5. ↑ https://www.englandboxing.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/EB_Boxing-Coaching-Handbook-Part-1_v8-002.pdf
  6. ↑ https://www.ucdc.edu/sites/default/files/uploads/documents/Other/Personal%20Safety.pdf
  7. ↑ https://www.englandboxing.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/EB_Boxing-Coaching-Handbook-Part-1_v8-002.pdf
  8. ↑ https://www.iba.sport/wp-content/uploads/2019/01/AIBA-Coach-Regulations-Manual_WEB_2019_01-1.pdf
  9. ↑ https://www.acefitness.org/resources/everyone/blog/5472/boxing-inspired-workout
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  1. ↑ https://aart.assembly.ca.gov/sites/aart.assembly.ca.gov/files/USA%20Boxing%20Guide%20-%20Mike%20McAtee.pdf
  2. ↑ https://www.cvpsd.org/post/6-self-defense-techniques-every-beginner-should-know

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Adrian Tandez Co-authored by: Adrian Tandez Jeet Kune Do Instructor This article was co-authored by Adrian Tandez and by wikiHow staff writer, Hunter Rising. Adrian Tandez is a Martial Arts and Self-Defense Specialist based in Mountain View, California. He is the founder, owner, and head instructor of the Warrior Combat Arts Academy, a world-renowned self-defense training center. He started the academy in 2005. Adrian has earned the titles of Guro (teacher in Filipino) and SiFu (master in Cantonese) from his certifications and years of martial arts training. Trained under the renowned martial artist Dan Inosanto, Adrian is a certified instructor in Bruce Lee's Jeet Kune Do, Filipino Martial Arts, and Silat, among other things. He has had over 30 years of martial arts experience. This article has been viewed 1,514,288 times. 25 votes - 65% Co-authors: 67 Updated: September 7, 2025 Views: 1,514,288 Categories: Self Defense Article SummaryX

It’s usually best to avoid fighting someone else, but there may be times when throwing some punches is your only line of self-defense. In these instances, there are a few key tips to keep in mind to help you hold your own and be a good fighter. First of all, concentrate your weight on the balls of your feet and bend your knees slightly. Avoid tensing up, and instead stay in an active stance that will enable you to maneuver quickly. Turn your body to the side with your dominant side farther from your opponent, and hold your hands level with your cheeks so you can move them quickly to attack or defend. Keep your hands in line with your elbows when you punch, applying pressure with your thumb to keep your fists tight. Make sure the back of your hand is in a straight line with your forearm as you punch to keep the wrist locked. When you throw a punch, quickly extend your dominant arm toward your opponent, twisting your fist so your palm faces down. As your arm goes forward, rotate your dominant shoulder forward to get more power from your blow. Your thumb should be on the outside of your curled fingers to avoid hurting yourself when you throw a punch. Alternate which hand you jab with to get off multiple, rapid hits, and when throwing punches keep your other hand in front of your face so you can block your opponent if they try to hit you. Try throwing some hooks, which are powerful punches that you throw from the side, to catch your opponent off guard. Tuck your own head down when you’re expecting a return punch to help protect sensitive areas. In order to incapacitate your opponent so you can get away safely, aim for their vulnerable areas to best issue damage and end a fight quickly. The most vulnerable places on the face include the eyes, ears, and nose, but if you have trouble hitting your attacker in the face, you can try going for their neck or throat to stun them. Shove your opponent to get more distance between you, using open fists to push your opponent away as hard as you can when they are in between punches or after you land a punch. This will give you time to get back into an optimal stance and prepare for the next punch, or to safely get away from the fight as your opponent tries to recover. For tips on cooling down a heated situation before a fight breaks out, read on! Did this summary help you?YesNo

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