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Losing a beloved pet is such a painful experience, and saying goodbye to them is never easy. Many pet owners want to bury their kitties at home so they can grieve privately and keep their pet near them always. This is a really beautiful sentiment, and in this article, we’ll explain exactly how home pet burial works, as well as share some alternatives if home burial isn’t possible. We also spoke with therapists and grief specialists for their professional advice on grieving and coping with the loss of your cherished pet.
What’s the best way to bury a pet cat?
Pick a spot in your yard that isn’t close to the house or near any bodies of water. Put your kitty in a biodegradable container or wrap them in a blanket. Dig a hole 3–5 ft (1–1.5 m) deep and gently place your cat in it. Cover the hole with soil and put a grave marker there so you can easily visit whenever you’d like.
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Section 1 of 4:How to Bury Your Cat at Home
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1 Plan to bury your cat as soon as possible. It’s so hard to say goodbye, but it’s important to bury your pet within 24-48 hours of their death, before the body starts to decompose. A prompt burial is especially important in warmer months because higher temperatures accelerate decomposition and magnify odors. If your cat died at the vet’s office, they’ll ask you to make a decision within that time frame.[1] - What if the ground is frozen? Unfortunately, if a cat dies in the winter, a prompt burial is not always possible. In this case, ask your vet whether you can store your cat's body with them until you're able to bury it.
- You can also wrap your cat in a towel and place it in a Styrofoam container filled with ice. However, you should only use this method if you're storing your cat's body for a few days prior to burial. It will not work for long-term storage.
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Adam Dorsay, PsyD, is a licensed psychologist who runs a private practice and specializes in helping clients with stress reduction, anxiety, and finding more happiness.
Jacqueline House, LMFT-A, is a therapist who specializes in helping her patients through anxiety and life transitions.
Michaela Hudson is a grief counselor based in Atlanta, Georgia. She specializes in supporting her clients on their healing journey after losing a loved one.
Moira Khan is a loss and resilience specialist and grief educator based in Madrid, Spain. She has helped grieving individuals all over the world.
Ebony Eubanks, MSW, ACSW, CAMS-II, is a therapist with over a decade of experience providing counseling and coaching to grieving individuals, couples, and groups.
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2 Check whether burying your cat is legal in your area. Unfortunately, burying an animal in your yard is not legal everywhere. If home pet burial is allowed in your area, you must own the property to legally bury your kitty there. Be sure to check local regulations by contacting your local courthouse or Department of Natural Resources to confirm home burial is allowed for pets.[2] - States that allow home burial include Alabama, California, Florida, Georgia, Illinois, New York, Maryland, Michigan, Pennsylvania, New Jersey and Texas. Other states may have special allowances, though.[3]
- If you're renting and don’t own the land, ask your landlord if they’ll allow pet burial in the yard. Some will, some won’t, but it never hurts to ask.
- You cannot bury pets in public spaces like parks or community gardens.
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3 Choose an appropriate spot in your yard for the burial. Pick an area of your yard that's not too close to your home and at least 50 ft (15 m) away from bodies of water (including wells) to avoid contaminating the water supply. Consider picking a special or symbolic place for the burial. For instance, if your cat always hung out near the wildflowers in your yard, this may be a good spot for their grave. If your cat loved to play in the woods on your property, you could bury them there.[4] - Avoid places where the grave will be frequently stepped on or disturbed. If you have young children, pick a spot where they do not play.
- Areas with heavy rainfall may not be great options for home pet burial. If your area gets a lot of rain, your pet’s body may resurface and need to be reburied. In this case, you may want to consider cremation instead.
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4 Select a biodegradable coffin, container, or covering for your kitty. Some areas require a specific type of container due to concerns about contaminating the ground, so be sure to comply with any laws. It’s always best to choose a container or covering that will decompose naturally–for example, place your kitty in a wooden or cardboard box, or wrap them in a towel or their favorite blanket.[5] - What to avoid: Heavy-duty plastic bags, metal boxes, plastic storage bins.[6]
- There are companies that make biodegradable burial vessels, like Paw Pods and Eco Casket Co. These vessels usually decompose within 3–5 years.
- Use gloves when handling your cat's body. If you want, you can bury them with a few of their favorite items.
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5 Dig a hole in the ground that’s at least 3–5 ft (1–1.5 m) deep. You’ll want to check local regulations, but the general recommendation is 3 ft (1 m) minimum. This depth helps to protect your cat's body from predators (like wild animals in the area). Make sure to dig the hole wide enough to accommodate your pet’s container or body, as well.[7] - Consider sprinkling a little bit of lime in the hole before placing your cat’s body inside. This helps with decomposition and prevents odors.[8]
- If you encounter any cables while you’re digging the hole, stop digging, refill the hole, and pick a different spot.
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6 Lower your cat into the hole and cover it with soil. After saying a few words, gently place your cat in the ground. Then, refill the hole with the soil you dug up. Make sure to press the soil down as you refill the grave. You want the soil to be firmly in place to prevent predators from digging up your cat.
Honor a loyal companion's life. "Saying goodbye to our 17-year-old cat Theodore was one of the hardest things we've ever done. He lived a long, happy life as a member of our family. Thanks to this article, we can lay him to rest with the respect he deserves. Knowing we can properly bury him in our yard and visit his grave will help us find closure after this painful loss." - Kevin H.
Provide a peaceful resting place. "We just lost our sweet cat, Lockie, unexpectedly. I'm so grateful we can bring him home and lay him to rest in the garden he loved playing and climbing in. Thanks to the detailed steps here, we can give him a peaceful final resting place to visit and reflect on our wonderful memories together." - Angela C.
Comfort a beloved friend near the end. "My tabby Nellie has been by my side for 20 years. Having to put her down is devastating. This guide gave me the info I needed to prepare a burial spot for her in the backyard. Wrapping her in her favorite blanket with her toys will help give us both comfort as we say goodbye. I'm thankful she can remain close." - Adrienne A.
Learn proper burial techniques. "I didn't know the steps for respectfully burying a cat before reading this. The instructions around choosing a legal site, using a coffin, digging deep enough, and setting up a grave marker have educated me on how to properly lay a cherished pet to rest. This knowledge will help me say goodbye." - Valerie G.
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7 Add a grave marker and decorate the grave (if you want to). There are many things you could use to mark your pet's grave. You can purchase a marker for your pet online, which you can custom-create to include your pet's name and other details, such as the date of birth and death. You can also gather stones and rocks from your backyard and pile them near the grave. If you’d like, paint the cat's name on a larger rock. - You can also put up temporary decorations, like flowers and other foliage.
- If your cat loved a particular type of plant, consider planting it over the grave. You can also put down something bigger, like a tree.
- If you're planting something in the ground, surround the base of the plant with something heavy to keep predators away.
- If you have young children, encourage them to write notes to the cat or draw pictures to leave at the gravesite.
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8 Have a small memorial for your kitty if you wish. Closure is important and a memorial can help with that. You can say a few words, sing a song, or read a poem–anything that will help you feel grounded and say goodbye in a way that feels right to you. You could even invite friends and family members over to say goodbye if they were close to your kitty.[9] - Young children may find a memorial particularly beneficial.
- Licensed psychologist Adam Dorsay, PsyD, recommends making a collage of your kitty at various ages. Writing and delivering a eulogy can also be really meaningful.[10]
- Therapist Jacqueline House, LMFT-A, recommends honoring your pet by talking about their positive impact on you and the strength they gave you during your time together.[11]
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Should I bury my cat at home?
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You can, if it’s legal in your area—but there are some things to consider. Burying your cat at home is a wonderful way to honor their passing and keep them close to you. Before you decide to do it, though, be sure to consider the pros and cons of home pet burial. That way, you can make an informed decision about how to best handle this difficult task. - Pros of home burial:
- It’s intimate and you can grieve your pet’s death privately at home.
- Your cat will stay physically close to you (which can be comforting).
- You can easily visit your cat whenever you want to.
- Home burial is cost-effective (especially compared to cremation services).
- You can decorate and customize their grave site however you’d like.
- Cons of home burial:
- Nature may not respect your pet’s final resting place. Wild animals could smell them and dig them up (which would be very upsetting to deal with).
- Decomposition creates bacteria that could contaminate nearby soil and water, potentially posing health risks to you and other animals.
- You could be fined heavily if home pet burial isn’t legal in your area.
- Not everyone has the stomach or emotional bandwidth to touch or handle their beloved pet’s dead body.
- If you move away, you’ll have to leave your pet behind.[12]
- Pros of home burial:
Alternatives to Home Pet Burial
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1 Bury your cat in a pet cemetery. If you like the idea of laying your cat’s body to rest in nature but you aren’t able to bury them at home, a pet cemetery is the next best option. Do some research and see what pet burial sites are available in your area. Then, get in touch with them for more information. Be sure to ask about the burial packages available–unfortunately, some pet cemeteries can be expensive.[13] - There will probably be burial packages available at different price points; a full burial package tends to cost $1,000 to $5,000.
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2 Ask your vet to cremate your cat. Touching and moving your beloved pet’s body after death is not easy–not everyone can handle that (and that’s okay). Private cremation is a convenient solution because a professional takes care of the process for you, and then your pet’s ashes are returned to you after a week or so. You can keep their ashes in an urn in your home, or scatter their ashes somewhere outdoors. - Private vs. communal cremation: Private cremation isn’t affordable for everyone. Some vets offer the option for a communal cremation, which means your cat’s body will be cremated along with several other animals. It’s much more affordable, but your pet’s ashes won’t be returned to you.[14]
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Frequently Asked Questions
- 1 What do I do if my cat dies at home? If your kitty dies at home and you want to do a home burial, plan to bury it within 24-48 hours (before the body starts to decompose). If you’d prefer cremation, you can bring your pet to your vet’s office and they’ll handle it for you. You can also hire a pet retrieval service to do a pickup and help you make the final arrangements.[15] A few things to consider when a pet dies at home:
- Put a disposable pad, towel, or absorbent fabric under them. It’s normal for cats to release their bladder, bowels, and other fluids when they die.
- Your cat will be very limp before rigor mortis sets in; be sure to support the head and body carefully if you need to move it.
- Wrap your kitty in a towel or blanket in the position you want them to remain in; rigor mortis (stiffness) will start to set in within a few hours.
- Place the body in a cool, dry place out of direct sunlight. If you’re unable to start the burial or cremation process after 24 hours, you may want to consider refrigeration or freezer storage.[16]
- 2 How do I cope with the grief I feel after my cat’s death? Dr. Dorsay says people often feel embarrassed about the immense grief they’re feeling over losing their pet, and they feel they should be stronger because it’s “just a pet.”[17] But pets are often considered family members, and losing a family member is never easy. Honor your grief and allow yourself time to process it. It’s okay to cry and take your pet’s death seriously.
- Grief counselor Michaela Hudson notes that grieving an animal is no different than grieving a human.[18]
- 3 How do I support my loved one who’s struggling with losing a pet? Grief coach and educator Moira Khan says the most important thing to do is listen to them and validate their feelings.[19] Therapist Ebony Eubanks, MSW, ACSW, CAMS-II, agrees and suggests making time for them and being available for support or just to listen.[20]
- Dr. Dorsay also says that talking to a friend can really help when someone is grieving. If you’ve lost a pet yourself, then you understand–it really hurts. Talking about it together can be affirming for both of you.[21]
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- ↑ https://www.memorials.com/info/how-to-bury-a-dog
- ↑ https://www.nnph.org/programs-and-services/environmental-health/waste-management-program/burial-pets-animals.php
- ↑ https://www.gpb.org/news/2024/04/24/can-i-bury-my-pet-in-the-back-yard-heres-what-georgia-law-says-about-home-funerals
- ↑ https://sacvalleyvet.com/sacramento-pet-euthanasia/burying-your-pet-at-home/
- ↑ https://www.onehealth.org/blog/how-to-bury-a-pet-end-of-life-options-for-our-beloved-companions
- ↑ https://www.memorials.com/info/how-to-bury-a-dog
- ↑ https://www.gpb.org/news/2024/04/24/can-i-bury-my-pet-in-the-back-yard-heres-what-georgia-law-says-about-home-funerals
- ↑ https://www.nnph.org/programs-and-services/environmental-health/waste-management-program/burial-pets-animals.php
- ↑ https://www.bluecross.org.uk/advice/cat/wellbeing-and-care/time-to-say-goodbye-to-your-cat
- ↑ Adam Dorsay, PsyD. Licensed Psychologist. Expert Interview
- ↑ Jacqueline House, LMFT-A. Therapist. Expert Interview
- ↑ https://funeral.com/blogs/the-journal/pet-burial-vs-cremation-pros-cons-costs-and-how-to-decide-what-s-best
- ↑ https://pawswhiskersandwags.com/is-it-better-to-bury-or-cremate-your-pet/
- ↑ https://pawswhiskersandwags.com/is-it-better-to-bury-or-cremate-your-pet/
- ↑ https://caringpathways.com/blog/what-should-i-do-if-my-pet-dies-at-home/
- ↑ https://www.hospicevet.com/what-to-do-if-your-pet-dies-at-home/
- ↑ Adam Dorsay, PsyD. Licensed Psychologist. Expert Interview
- ↑ Michaela Hudson. Grief Counselor. Expert Interview
- ↑ Moira Khan. Grief Coach and Educator. Expert Interview
- ↑ Ebony Eubanks, MSW, ACSW, CAMS-II. Therapist. Expert Interview
- ↑ Adam Dorsay, PsyD. Licensed Psychologist. Expert Interview
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Burying a cat is an emotional process, but choosing a special or symbolic burial site can be helpful as you work through the grieving process. When you’re choosing a site, make sure that it’s an area where you can dig a hole at least 3 feet deep so that your cat’s body won’t be targeted by predators. You’ll also need to decide on a coffin or container, which can be as simple as a box it loved to play in. Then, consider having a small ceremony with friends and family so you can share memories and say goodbye before you bury your cat. For more advice, including how to memorialize your cat’s gravesite with things like rocks and flowers, keep reading. Did this summary help you?YesNo
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"My tabby Nellie has been by my side for 20 years. Having to put her down is devastating. This guide gave me the info I needed to prepare a burial spot for her in the backyard. Wrapping her in her favorite blanket with her toys will help give us both comfort as we say goodbye. I'm thankful she can remain close."..." more Rated this article:Valerie G.
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