How To Get A MILF In [2022] - Easy Ways To Find & Meet

One of the most beautiful things about the 21st century is this new concept of freedom of attraction. What does this mean for you? It means you’re free to hit on, bang, or even date a hot older woman. What does it mean for us? We get to teach you how to get a MILF.

Getting down with a MILF requires a completely different strategy than hooking up with younger women. MILFs are usually women in their thirties, forties, and fifties. They aren’t doe-eyed fawns anymore; they’re more mature and understand how the world works.

This maturity is both a blessing and a curse. A blessing because it means they won’t be as crazy, temperamental, and ignorant as some younger girls. A curse because they know what you want and can, more often than not, see right through you.

On the journey to getting a MILF, you’re going to need a little help. Luckily for you, we’ve dug up five tried-and-tested steps to make sure that you win the lady’s heart. Or at least get in her pants.

Step #1: Find A MILF

Knowing where to find women who are looking for casual sex is different from knowing where to find MILFs. Most MILFs are mothers or working women or both. So, finding one in a bar or a club isn’t going to be easy.

We're not saying that you can't find older women in bars or clubs. It's just that a lot of them are looking for validation through male attention rather than actual sex. Plus, you want to have a big pool to choose from. Most MILFs left their bar-hopping days in their twenties.

So, if you’re looking for a MILF, you need to get up and start preparing to head out during the day. Here are some places where you’re more likely to find MILFs.

In Middle or Upper-Class Neighborhoods

As we said before, most MILFs are working women or mothers or both. This means that they'll probably be paying their mortgages or rent. A typical day in a middle or upper-class neighborhood will see MILFs jogging in the morning, visiting the park with their kids, hanging out outside with their friends (who are probably also MILFs), walking their dogs, etc.

Meeting MILFs in this way can work well. You can start by approaching them with something simple like asking for directions, and then following up the conversation with a seemingly casual compliment.

Or if she’s with her child, you can compliment the child while alluding to her. Using questions after compliments like “he sure has a lot of energy, how do you keep up?” is also a great way to get the conversation started and keep it going.

However, this requires a delicate balance. Try to compliment her kid without being a creeper. If you can’t, try the question/ compliment method.

High-End Malls or Shopping Centers

This requires a little bit of luck and timing. Weekends are a great time to “bump into” MILFs at malls because they’re usually busy shopping.

Here, you can use the excuse of needing to purchase a gift for your older sister, mother, aunt, or cousin, and needing the help of a beautiful lady such as herself. Remember to add the compliment. It’s the most important part.

Dating Sites

You can also find MILFs on dating sites. Currently, the best site for younger guys looking to find a MILF is eHarmony. eHarmony is a dating site that has over 30 million members.

The great thing about them is that a lot of their users are older women who want to meet guys and are ready to take the initiative to do so. Their sign-up process is very easy, and you can get whatever you want, be it a night of casual sex or a relationship.

There’s also a trial offer available, so you can check it out and dip if you don’t like what you see.