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All Topics General Dating Sex Grooming Style Fitness Food More News Movies & TV Music Career Gaming Health Finance Tech Drinks Travel Sports Ask A Question By posting you agree that you have read the Community Rules & Guidelines Anonymous AskMen Reader 6 years ago How to recognize a sub? I want to experiment BDSM but just the Dom/Sub. Im a guy. Was married but divorced for 5 years. Ive come to the conclusion that Im inherently a dom and no wonder Ive struggled in my relationships. Where do I start? I dont want to join the clubs specifically for this. Nor from various online sites. I want to find a sub woman on the go. What are the tell tale signs? General Log in to answer

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It's spam It's a duplicate It's offensive It's not a valid question or answer It's not written in English Other Hierophant Wise AskMen Reader 6 years ago Ya know...as far as I am concerned the BDSM concept is by and large quite silly Especially the masks and tools and theatrics...’scenes’...fantasy/illusion - its a big fat gimmick. Give me something real! What you seem to be really taking about is the age old Masculine/Feminine dynamic which are yin/yang providing balance....and balance = harmony - something a solid majority of modern relationship lack Feminism originally had an obvious place in society...clearly something needed to be done back then. But somehow along the way, the whole concept of masculine or feminine became under attack. ‘Masculinity is bad...it makes men aggressive meathead rapists!“ “Femininity is bad...it makes women soft and weak and subject to exploitation by those awful masculine men!” “Everyone should be equal and have the same experiences!!” So society begins this slow shift to what they think is equality but it really isn’t...we kind of lost sight Because “equal” doesn’t mean “the same” After all a pound of feathers and a pound of iron are ‘equal’ weight but only a fool would think they are the same thing So here we are in this society where we try to raise our girls as boys and our boys as girls all in this misguided gender neutral landscape and we have about 2 generations now of men and women that are as confused as piss about how to relate to one another Just surf through the threads on this site for countless examples of it posted daily! Anyway...rant over: to your question, how do you identify a ‘sub’? Well...a ‘sub’ female is someone who is going to be highly feminine and very much comfortable with it. She is likely to desire a strong man (mind and body) who is capable and willing to protect and provide for her - and I am not talking about financial security - I am talking about her feeling safe, secure & content in her mans arms - there is no where she rather be, and because she adores her worthy man so much - nothing makes her happier than to serve him and meet his every need (key phrase ‘worthy man’ and you best be damn sure you are exactly that because she’ll have her pick of men if you fvck it up!) This ‘sub’ female is likely disappointed with the quality of men she is encountering and longs for a romanticized version of a bygone era where ‘men were men’ (John Wayne) and ‘women were women’ (Sofia Loren) So she may be a fan of old movies or retro clothing... And they have their own way of giving you clues When I first met my wife she was talking her thoughts about what I have just mentioned considering herself an ‘old fashioned girl’ so I asked her if she liked old movies - no surprise she says yes...so I ask “any recommendations?” She suggests an old John Wayne comedy where there is a comedic scene where Wayne takes his mouthy love interest over his knee and shows her who the boss is! Now obviously this isn’t going to go over very well with the majority of modern women - they are unlikely to see any humor, let alone sexual tension from such a scene. Why would this girl like this movie? So to prove I had actually watched the film, I sent her a text “Ahhh....ok then - better watch yourself or I’ll take you over my knee!” To which she replied “Don’t threaten me with a good time!” Game on! Log in to reply Americanguy1 One does not ask for a new title 6 years ago Buy a whip and some leather pants then go down to the bus stop and just ask. Log in to reply tomodachi58 Highly agreeable 6 years ago How to recognize a sub? They are usually black, size depends on whether they are a missile sub or an attack sub. They have an anechoic coating on the hull for stealth and a nuclear reactor for propulsion. You should read The Hunt For Red October, book was better than the movie, although the movie was pretty good in itself. Log in to reply Ask A Question By posting you agree that you have read the Community Rules & Guidelines

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