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Terms of Use wikiHow is where trusted research and expert knowledge come together. Learn why people trust wikiHow How to Respond to a Like on Hinge: 13 Conversation Starters PDF download Download Article Explore this Article IN THIS ARTICLE 1 Send a friendly greeting. 2 Ask them a question. 3 Find out why they’re on an app. 4 React to their prompts. 5 Point out the pics you like. 6 Highlight your similarities. 7 Thank them for their compliments. 8 Compliment them. 9 Answer questions with humor. 10 Flirt with them. 11 Use “you” statements. 12 Follow up if they don’t reply. 13 Match with them. + Show 10 more... - Show less... Other Sections Expert Q&A Video Tips and Warnings Related Articles References Co-authored by Mark Rosenfeld and Dan Hickey

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This article was co-authored by Mark Rosenfeld and by wikiHow staff writer, Dan Hickey. Mark Rosenfeld is a Dating and Relationship Coach based in Norman Park, Australia. He founded his coaching business, Make Him Yours, in 2015. Mark specializes in helping women find, attract, and keep extraordinary relationships. He has been featured in Style Magazine, Thought Catalog, Elite Daily, News.com.au, and The Good Men Project. Mark’s dating videos have received over 60 million views, and his book “Make Him Yours – Beating the Odds of Modern Dating” was a best-seller on Amazon upon its release. There are 11 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page. This article has been fact-checked, ensuring the accuracy of any cited facts and confirming the authority of its sources. This article has been viewed 209,673 times.

No question describes the dating app experience better than “What in the world do I say!?” That question is especially real on Hinge, where a user can like you and say nothing or they can like you and send the first message all at once. In either case, we’ve got you covered! We’ve put together a thorough list of ways to respond to a like when it’s up to you to send the first message, and how to respond when the other person starts things off. If you’re ready to woo your matches and rake in the replies, read on!

Steps

1

Send a friendly greeting.

  1. Respond to their... Respond to their greeting or start the conversation. A simple “hello” shows that you’re open to chatting with them, although it’s not the most engaging reply. Try tacking on a question or teasing them into opening with something more creative for a higher chance of a response.[1]
    • ”Hi! 👋”
    • “Hey there!”
    • “Hi Blake! How are you today?”
    • “Just a ‘hello?’ Come on, you seem more creative than that 😉”
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2

Ask them a question.

  1. Ask them something interesting to get the conversation started. Ask them something interesting to get the conversation started. Questions show you want to know more about them and are more likely to get a response than a simple greeting or statement. Ask about something you notice in their profile or about some lighthearted local events (if you’re in the same area). Include their name to sound friendlier.[2]
    • “Enjoying this lovely weather we’re having?”
    • “Hey! Did you really make that rainbow cake in your picture? It looks profesh!”
    • “Hi Jordan, are you loving the first beach day of the year?”
    • “How are you today, Rebecca?”
    • Reader Poll: We asked 146 wikiHow readers: what’s the best way to connect with a potential date via text or online messaging? 50% said they had the best luck when discussing common interests and hobbies. [Take Poll] So when in doubt, fall back on questions about your potential shared interests—for example, if you’re a big reader, ask about the last book they read.
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Find out why they’re on an app.

  1. Ask them what they want to get out of Hinge. Ask them what they want to get out of Hinge. A like means they’re interested in you, but you’ll want to know more about their motivation for online dating before you take things too far. Keep your tone light and jokey—the apps are meant to be fun, after all!—and share what you’re looking for if you want.[3]
    • “So what brings you on here?”
    • “*pulls out magnifying glass* So what are you looking for on here?”
    • “Hey there! What brings you to Hinge on this rainy afternoon?”
    • “Hi! Love your profile. Are you more of an LTR person or a casual dates person? I’m looking to settle down myself.”
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4

React to their prompts.

  1. Respond to one of their prompt answers if you’re sending the first message. Respond to one of their prompt answers if you’re sending the first message. Hinge has a ton of prompts for users to share more about themselves and show some personality, like “I know the best spot in town for…” or “A random fact I love is…” Skim through your liker’s answers and react to something that sticks out to you.[4]
    • “The best spot in town for sweet potato tater tots!? Please share 🤤”
    • “Your 2 truths and a lie answer is tough…I’m guessing you never actually went to the moon, but I could be wrong 😂”
    • “I love Mike and Ikes too! They always remind me of my hometown movie theater.”
    • “That’s some random fact! I’m gonna pull that one out at parties for sure.”
5

Point out the pics you like.

  1. Send a compliment or question based on your liker’s pictures. Send a compliment or question based on your liker’s pictures. Hinge profiles feature 6 photos and users have the option to link their Instagram accounts too. This gives you plenty of inspiration for a reply![5] Try sending compliments, questions, or flirty observations like:
    • “Great pictures!”
    • “You look stunning in that sunset photo 😍”
    • “Is that a pic of Angkor Wat? I was just there last month!”
    • “That mimosa photo is great but it’s missing something…me! 😉”
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6

Highlight your similarities.

  1. Point out something you have in common based on their profile. Point out something you have in common based on their profile. Maybe it’s their answer to the prompt “I want someone who…” or they have a photo of them hiking in your favorite national park. Anything you have in common is a great starting point for a chat.[6] Just keep it honest—there’s no use building a connection around something untrue.[7]
    • “You like cats over dogs? Same!”
    • “Is that a Gemini hoodie you’re wearing? That’s my sign too ♊”
    • “Nice pic of you at the Eiffel Tower. I’ve been there too, it’s amazing!”
    • “Love that you’re looking for an LTR, I am too”
7

Thank them for their compliments.

  1. If they sent you a compliment with their like, let them know you appreciate it. If they sent you a compliment with their like, let them know you appreciate it. “Thanks!” or “that’s so nice of you” are great ways to accept a compliment graciously. Keep it simple—a quick “thank you” is the most endearing and effective response (and will psychologically attract your liker, too!).[8]
    • “Aw, thanks!”
    • “Thanks, I appreciate that!”
    • “Aw, that’s sweet of you 😊”
    • “Thank you!”
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8

Compliment them.

  1. Try complimenting your liker whether they included a message or not. Try complimenting your liker whether they included a message or not. This shows you’re interested or attracted to them, and they’ll be encouraged to respond. Respectfully comment on their appearance in their photos or tell them how interesting or funny their prompt answers are. If they complimented you first, say “thanks” and send one back to them, too.[9]
    • “You’ve got the funniest prompt answers I’ve seen all month lol”
    • “Hey there. You’ve got a beautiful smile!”
    • “Aw thanks! You’re pretty cute yourself :)”
    • “An award-winning composer? You’re really talented!”
9

Answer questions with humor.

  1. Send a creative, witty answer if they opened with a question for you. Send a creative, witty answer if they opened with a question for you. A simple “yes” or “no” answer doesn’t encourage lively conversation or say a lot about you.[10] Inject some personality into your reply with interesting details and humor.[11] For example:
    • Them: “Wow, did you really paint that apple tree? It looks amazing!”
    • You: “I sure did! I was at a paint-and-sip for a bachelorette party, so I had a lot of help from the instructor (and from the wine, too haha). Do you paint?”
    • Them: “I haven’t really tried. Maybe I just haven’t found the right wine to get me going”
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10

Flirt with them.

  1. When all else fails, go for a flirty opener. When all else fails, go for a flirty opener. Try respectfully complimenting your liker’s appearance or initiating a playful challenge. If you can relate it to one of their pictures or prompts, that’s perfect! If your liker sent you a teasing comment first, try to match their energy—misreading something as flirty or horny when it’s not is an easy way to end the conversation.[12]
    • “Oh hey, do you come here often? 😉”
    • “Not you looking fresh as hell in that suit 😏”
    • “Take a guess at which photo made me want to talk to you (hint: all of them 😍)
    • “If you could have dinner with me or me, who would you choose?”
11

Use “you” statements.

  1. Use the word “you” more than “I.” Use the word “you” more than “I.” They’re more likely to respond to you when your message shows you have an interest in them or you make them feel good. Too many “I” statements might sound self-absorbed or less friendly.[13]
    • “You seem like such a fun person!”
    • “You really train dolphins? That’s so cool!”
    • “No way you’ve been to Antarctica!”
    • “You’re so interesting.”
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12

Follow up if they don’t reply.

  1. If you’ve sent your liker a message and they haven’t replied, try them again. If you’ve sent your liker a message and they haven’t replied, try them again. On Hinge, a double text isn’t a death sentence. Data shows that if you wait at least 3 hours and 52 minutes to message again, the recipient is more likely to respond to you than ignore you. Go ahead and send that followup—chances are it’ll work out![14]
    • You: “Hey there, how are you today?”
    • You: “Hm, you must be too busy being adorable”
    • Them: “Haha you caught me! I’m good, how’re you doing?”
13

Match with them.

  1. If your liker didn’t send a message, you can match without saying anything. If your liker didn’t send a message, you can match without saying anything. This indicates that you want them to start the conversation (they’ll even get a bubble that says “Your Turn” next to your name). Matching like this says you might be interested, but aren’t super invested (or that you’re only interested in finding matches, not chatting).[15]
    • If no one feels like initiating the conversation, it’s unlikely this match will go anywhere.
    • If your liker did include a message when they liked you, responding like this might seem cold or even rude. If you can, send a thoughtful reply to start a quality conversation.
    • If you’ve matched and sent them a message but they haven’t responded, consider unmatching them after about 48 hours. They might not be checking the app or they just might not be serious about dating.[16]
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Join the Discussion...

When's the best time to send a first message on hinge? WikiAxolotlKeeper936 WikiAxolotlKeeper936 Just got a match on Hinge and I'm extremely interested to message her. I don't want to blow it and come off as too eager chatting her up right away, but I don't want to lose her as a match before it's too late. Is there like, a scientifically proven time that I should make the first move? Read More Anonymous WikiTapir Anonymous WikiTapir Nah don't try to play games, I'd just message her back right away if that's what you want to do. I think it shows that you're interested in her. You'll only come across as desperate if you act desperate in your messages. Read More WikiDugongFlyer785 WikiDugongFlyer785 While I think there are "best" times to send Hinge messages, I don't let that stop me from messaging people when I want. I'm looking for a serious relationship, so filtering out people who would've only replied if I messaged them at a specific time is a plus for me! Same goes for making the first move. Even if there is a "scientifically proven" time to make a first move, I'd rather not abide by that. I'm going to make the first move when it feels right for me, and if that doesn't work for the woman I'm seeing, then we're probably not a good match. Read More See all 4 Replies and Read Discussion

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  • Question How do I keep a Hinge conversation fun? Mark Rosenfeld Mark Rosenfeld Dating & Relationship Coach Mark Rosenfeld is a Dating and Relationship Coach based in Norman Park, Australia. He founded his coaching business, Make Him Yours, in 2015. Mark specializes in helping women find, attract, and keep extraordinary relationships. He has been featured in Style Magazine, Thought Catalog, Elite Daily, News.com.au, and The Good Men Project. Mark’s dating videos have received over 60 million views, and his book “Make Him Yours – Beating the Odds of Modern Dating” was a best-seller on Amazon upon its release. Mark Rosenfeld Mark Rosenfeld Dating & Relationship Coach Expert Answer Include more details to add some energy to your messages. For example, "I went on a ski trip to Colorado last week" can come off as a little boring. Instead, you could write, "Oh my gosh, I just came back from Colorado and had the most amazing time there. We saw the cutest little bear. And he was running around with his mom and oh my god, I was in heaven." The additional details and energy make the conversation more exciting. Thanks! We're glad this was helpful. Thank you for your feedback. If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow Yes No Not Helpful 6 Helpful 10
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  • If someone sends you a rose instead of a like, it means they’re very interested in you! Hinge users only get to send one rose per week (unless they purchase more).[17] Thanks Helpful 0 Not Helpful 0
  • Send your response quickly if you’re interested in the person! Messages sent within the first 24 hours of matching are twice as likely to receive a response.[18] Thanks Helpful 0 Not Helpful 0
  • You can block or report a Hinge user if their profile or message makes you feel uncomfortable or unsafe. Blocking removes them from your likes or matches and prevents them from messaging you in the future. Block for reasons like offensive language, threats, or inappropriate material in their photos. Thanks Helpful 2 Not Helpful 1
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  1. ↑ Mark Rosenfeld. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview
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