How Wear A Packer: Positioning, Comfort & FTM Packing Tips - Emisil

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So you've chosen your perfect packer... Now you need to find a way to wear it comfortably! Each person is unique, so what works for one may not work for another. This comprehensive guide covers all the methods, tips, and tricks to help you wear your prosthetic with confidence.

🎯 3 Wearing Methods Harness, Underwear, Adhesive 📍 Positioning Guide Soft, STP, Hard Packers 💡 Pro Tips Swimming, Plus-Size & More

What's in This Guide

15 min read

• 1 Three Ways to Wear Your Packer
• 2 Harness & Straps
• 3 Packing Underwear
• 4 Adhesive Method
• 5 Positioning & Comfort
• 6 Soft Packer Guide
• 7 STP Packer Guide
• 8 Hard Packer Guide
• 9 Plus Size Tips
• 10 Packing While Swimming
• 11 Recommended Underwear
• 12 Practical Tips

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Three Ways to Wear Your Packer

There are mainly three ways to wear your prosthetics. Each has its own advantages and considerations. Let's explore all options so you can find what works best for you.

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Harness / Straps

Secure hold for active lifestyles. Great for sports and physical activities.

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Packing Underwear

Most comfortable for daily wear. Natural feel with many style options.

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Adhesive

Most natural look. No extra garments needed. Perfect for intimate moments.

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Harness & Straps

Best For: Active Lifestyles

If you are very active, a harness or straps is a good choice. They keep the prosthetic in place and feel tight and secured. The straps may stretch during the day, so you may need to readjust them.

If you are not a standard body type (very skinny or heavier than usual), straps or harness may be uncomfortable as they may slide down or leave marks if too tight.

⚠️ Important Consideration

Due to additional straps, some trans men feel their dysphoria flare up. When choosing a harness, make sure you measure yourself properly and buy the right size. Quality matters — don't go cheap on harnesses.

Do's

• Measure yourself accurately before buying
• Choose quality products from trustworthy companies
• Try moving around (sit, stand, bend) to test comfort
• Wear underwear over harness for extra security

Don'ts

• Don't go cheap on harnesses — quality matters
• Don't wear a ring harness with hard construction
• Don't ignore discomfort — readjust or try different size
• Avoid leather straps if swimming

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Packing Underwear

Best For: Daily Comfort

If you want to feel comfortable while working out, actively moving, or just doing daily things — packing underwear is the way to go.

The underwear is very comfortable, pleasant to wear, and feels natural. There are multiple design and fabric options: briefs, boxers, or whatever suits your style!

A secure fit is essential. We recommend TRUHK Packing Boxers to keep everything comfortably in place.

✨ Pro Tip

When using harness or underwear for packing, secure it in the natural position first, then put on your underwear. Check to make sure it's tightly attached and you're all set!

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Adhesive Method

Most Natural Look

After extensive research, Emisil found materials with very good grip with medical adhesive. The prosthetics are made with an adhesion tab that attaches to the body with Silicone Medical Grade Adhesive.

The best part: You don't have to wear anything else to keep it attached. With custom color matching, it looks very natural — like a real penis.

Step-by-Step Application

Apply the Adhesive to the Tab

Clean the skin area first — remove hair and wash properly. Make sure the adhesion tab is also clean with no residue. Apply adhesive evenly to the tab, covering all edges without applying too much.

Position the Packer Properly

Attach your packer to the body and position it carefully. Try not to move it around for too long as the adhesive may start to cure. Let it dry for a few minutes, then clean any residue around the prosthetic.

Removing the Packer

Wear no longer than 8-12 hours. Use adhesive remover (water/soap won't work). Gently pull from the edge, clean the skin, shower, and apply moisturizer. Wash your prosthetic daily with soap and warm water.

Recommended Adhesives

Emisil researched the best adhesive options in the U.S. and Europe:

BT-460 Secure Medical Adhesive Pros-aide Adhesive Telesis 8 Silicone Adhesive 📍

Positioning, Comfort & Top Tips

Packing is a great way to fight gender dysphoria, although finding the most suitable and well-fitted packer might be intimidating, especially when you're new. The big question: How the heck do I wear it?

What You'll Learn

• How to wear and position a soft packer
• How to wear and position an STP packer
• How to wear and position a hard packer
• How to wear a packer when you're plus size
• Packing while swimming
• FTM packing underwear recommendations

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How to Wear a Soft Packer

Soft packers are made for everyday usage. They're comfortable for daily wear but can't be used for penetrative sex.

Noticeable Effect

• Position packer higher on your pelvic bone
• Try packing down — let it rest directly above the scrotum area
• Use a mirror and turn to the side to find the perfect look

🎯 Discreet Look

• Position the packer a little lower than you assume
• Align your stem with the packer, most should be between legs
• Position as close to inner thighs as possible

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How to Wear an STP Packer

STP (Stand-To-Pee) packers have a special construction for urinating while standing.

📍 Find Your Position

Finding the right position takes time. Try it at home first until you're comfortable.

🚫 Don't Bend Upwards

Never bend your STP upwards — you'll damage it. Keep the shaft angled properly.

💧 Control the Flow

A smaller flow helps you stay clean. Stop from time to time to prevent overflow.

👖 Choose Right Pants

Your STP should be lower than urethral exit. Some pants don't have enough space.

Remember: When finished, there may be a few drops remaining. Lift the cup forward to empty completely before putting away.

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How to Wear a Hard Packer

Hard packers (also called "pack and play") are made of firmer but flexible silicone. They're suitable for both packing and sexual penetration.

⚠️ Important Notes

• Hard packers are mainly worn positioned downwards — packing up may damage the product
• They're not as comfortable as soft packers for all-day wear
• Not suitable for STP function
• If using for penetration, use water-based lubricant

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Plus Size Packing Tips

It can be challenging for bigger guys to find a suitable packer. Common complaints: the packer constantly moves, bulge seems either non-existent or way too obvious.

Nobody wants to spend money on something uncomfortable. Here are specific tips that work!

📍 Pack Lower

If you want a natural, proportionate bulge — pack lower than you think.

↔️ Side Position

If packer gets between your legs causing friction, position it to the left or right side.

🩲 Right Harness

Find a comfortable harness that prevents movement without tightening your belly too much.

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Packing While Swimming

Yes, packing while swimming is possible! Silicone packers are the best option — they handle water exposure well.

First Layer — Tight Briefs

Wear tight briefs with a tiny pouch for your packer. This is the most important layer.

Second Layer — Compression

Add compression shorts or harness. Make sure no leather parts if using harness.

Top Layer — Swimwear

Wear regular FTM swimwear (boxers, shorts) on top. You're ready to enjoy the water!

🧖 Sauna Friendly

Good news — you can wear your packer in the sauna! It won't damage your prosthetic.

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Recommended Packing Underwear

Some underwear options aren't tight enough to hold your packer in the right place. Here are the best options:

RodeoH

Incredible variety that's cozy AND stylish. Many models, colors, and styles available. Creates less ride-up on legs for maximum comfort.

JOCKMAIL

Perfect for active, sporty guys. Hong Kong-based company with high-quality, stylish garments. Note: Only smaller sizes available.

PAXIES

Goal: "Normalize different." All-in-one boxers great for packing. Wide size range from XS to 6X!

DIY Harness Options

On a Budget?

Option 1: Sew elastic fabric straps together — wrap around waistline and attach straps around packer's testicles.

Option 2: Make a harness from old boxers — separate waistband, create a pouch from remaining material with a hole for the shaft, sew to waistband.

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Practical Tips to Get You Started

We understand how frustrating the first days of learning might feel. Here are essential tips to help you adjust:

🌟 Essential Packing Tips

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Right Size Matters

Big isn't always best. The right size is what suits YOU. Comfort provides more confidence than size.

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Specialized Underwear

Consider underwear with special packer pouches. They provide assurance your packer stays in place all day.

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Give Yourself Time

Don't expect to feel amazing right away. Wear it around the house first.

Always remember: The way YOU feel matters more than what others think. Only you decide which option works best. Learning how to wear a packer might be frustrating at first, but once you get used to it — you'll feel more like yourself. Wear your packer with pride! 💜

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