Men Tell Us What A Good Blowjob Feels Like - Metro

Most men love blowjobs.

But why? What exactly do they get from it that they can’t get from penetrative sex?

Metro.co.uk spoke with several men about why they love blowjobs so much – and what they actually feel like.

Here’s what they said.

‘It offers what sex just doesn’t’

‘Sex is amazing, obviously. But blowjobs give a sensation that sex just doesn’t and leaves you feeling all tingly.

‘Especially if it’s done right. If they know what they’re doing, they hit the more sensitive spots that penetrative sex doesn’t, and it’s incredible.’

‘More suction and pressure’

‘Basically like normal sex but with more suction and pressure on it if that makes any sense’.

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‘A good blowjob is better than sex itself’

‘For me, a good blowjob is better than sex itself. It’s all of the benefit of penetration with zero effort for me.

‘Also, consider the fact that the vagina practically does nothing during penetration…it just kind of sits there.

‘The mouth can move, the tongue can move, creating different sensations around the penis that the vagina just can’t match.

‘A blowjob feels like more of a participatory act, from my perspective. There are things men can do for women while the act is taking place, so both can get pleasure.’

‘If you’re with the right woman it can be mind blowing’

‘If you’re with the right woman who likes giving blowjobs then they can be mind blowing.

‘If the woman doesn’t like giving them or isn’t really experienced they can be a real boner killer, so it really depends who you are with, really.

‘I wouldn’t want to ask someone who doesn’t like giving them to give one.’

‘It’s like putting a straw into a bottle of J20’

‘I guess the easiest comparison – but not particularly poetic, I’m afraid – is imagining how it feels putting a straw in to the bottle of J20 and bobbing it up and down.

‘Obviously the bottle would be full.’

‘It’s quite a sensitive area’

‘It’s quite a sensitive area, so you can feel everything – the tongue, the mouth, teeth (I’m not into girls using teeth but I know some guys are).

‘It feels warm, intimate, and there’s a tingling sensation to it.’

‘A delicious sensation of warmth’

‘So hard to describe but not a bit like warm apple pie as a certain movie might suggest. The best description I could think of would be a delicious sensation of warmth and tingling rising throughout the entire body.

‘It’s different to straight sex as the hand is moving as well as the tongue and when timed right, hitting the frenulum just right it’s how I imagine having just the right amount of pressure on a girl’s G-spot feels whilst she’s also having her clitoris stimulated and the whole area (as it extends down the thighs too).’

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‘A mode of vulnerability that sex doesn’t give’

‘A blow job is a mode of vulnerability that sex doesn’t sometimes give.

‘It also has a sense of attentiveness. When I was young I actually shied away from them because I wasn’t secure enough to receive such close attention.

‘Physically a well-done blow Job has the ability to take over every inch of skin with ticklish goosebumps.

‘The entire body is at a cataclysmic state of urgency that coupled with the aforementioned vulnerability can be one beautiful thing.

‘That’s why it is so essential for men to be willing to be attentive to his significant person as well.’

‘A smooth, wet, chicken nugget’

‘So, have you ever stuck your finger in Flarp!’s Noise Putty?

‘It’s similar to that. But warm. And there’s a smooth, wet, chicken nugget that occasionally wiggles around, and sometimes teeth. I mean, I don’t know how to explain it without making myself laugh.’

So there you go, guys. Blowjobs are amazing – and for the first time, we’ve heard one compared to a chicken nugget.

Brilliant.

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