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When Your Partner Threatens Suicide
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It seems like a no-win situation. Someone you’re close to, like your partner, threatens suicide and says something like, “I’ll kill myself if you leave me.” You may feel stuck in your situation or afraid of what they will do if they are alone.

Why does your partner threaten suicide?

People with mental illnesses, such as Borderline Personality Disorder, typically have a higher risk of suicide. A history of depression, substance abuse, and other disorders carry risks as well. If your partner truly wishes to die and has a plan and intention to follow through, get immediate help. Call your local emergency number, or call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255).

Additional tips for dealing with your partner’s suicide threat

It is hard to know what to do when your partner threatens suicide. Know that there is help available for both your partner and you. You might consider talking to a counselor or other professional therapist if that’s an option for you. Our advocates are here 24/7 if you have questions or need someone to talk to.

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