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You have dreams. BIG dreams. Living in that huge house with your beautiful family. Traveling the world with no financial restraints. Making a huge impact in the world…

And yet the reality seems to be different.

You’ve tried everything, but nothing really worked. You’re still stuck in that unsatisfying job you’ve had for the last 10+ years. You don’t find the “right time” to go on that amazing adventurous world trip. You feel like you can’t make a difference in the world all by yourself. So why even bother… You start losing faith that you can actually make your dreams come true.

I see you. I feel you. I hear you.

And I have an answer as to WHY this is happening to you.

THAT’s the answer: you think that it is happening TO YOU.

Life is happening TO you. You think circumstances get in your way. Nothing seems to be going according to the plan. Your expectations aren’t met. You’re blaming the external world for something that’s not happening. Even if you listen to your gut feeling, nothing is happening in your favor. Things just don’t turn out the way you hoped or wished. Damn… No luck…

But the thing is…

Do you really think that everything will fall into the right places on its own? 🤔

Making your dreams come true requires:

1. BELIEF in yourself
2. DEDICATION towards your vision
3. ACTION to make it your reality

You have to take control and responsibility for GETTING what you want. It’s not gonna fall out of the sky. That’s just not the way it works. What truly needs to happen is YOU making the circumstances work FOR you. Not TO you. Not AGAINST you. But FOR YOU!

It’s a matter of making it your MISSION and doing everything that’s in your control to make whatever it is that you want — happen.

The question remains…

Are you brave enough to become the CREATOR of your own destiny?

Now, if you ARE brave but need some guidance — don’t hesitate to drop me a message! 😉

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Many people go through life believing in themselves, working hard, working smart, and taking the best advantage they can of every opportunity. Still, their dreams don't come true. The good life is nowhere to be seen. It's called unlucky, it's called chaos. Some of us are just born to live on the wrong end of the bell curve. I'm sure of it. Some people coast thru life...everything good seems to happen to them without effort. And some people get beaten down no matter the effort....wrong end of the bell curve. It's chaos. It's real. You can't get past it. Sorry.

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Thank you very much for such a nice analysis and Answer ♥️🙏💎🙏

Like Reply 1 Reaction 2 Reactions Marco Urquidi 5y

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Luck has nothing to do with life. We are what we want to be. When we put the effort, we can overcome any obstacles; however, the purpose of some obstacles is to redirect our path. We have to learn to interpret the signs that we encounter on the road of life.

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Sometimes you win but offen you loose when you gamble. Maybe Ruta Stasiunaite that is the reason I stopped gambling, bying tickets of the lotary, scratch cards or playing roulette. That decision made my the luckiest man in the world and I am active now to reach my goals.

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