Why Am I Tight And Dry? Causes And Management

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What to know about vaginal tightness and dryness

Medically reviewed by Carolyn Kay, M.D. — Written by Hana Ames on May 28, 2020

Vaginitis
Douching
Vaginismus
Menopause
Childbirth and breastfeeding
Testosterone
Sjogren's syndrome
Treatment
Seeing a doctor
Summary

Sometimes, a person may feel that their vagina is drier than usual or uncomfortably tight. These symptoms can occur for a number of reasons.

Common causes include hormonal changes and imbalances in the amount of good and bad bacteria in the vagina.

Read on to find out what causes vaginal dryness and feelings of tightness, as well as what to do to get relief.

Vaginitis

a woman lying in bed and wondering why am i tight and dry — Hormonal changes are a possible cause of vaginal dryness and tightness.

Vaginitis is the medical term for inflammation of the vagina.

Some of the symptoms of vaginitis include:

vaginal dryness
vaginal itching
sore, swollen, or cracked skin around the vagina
vaginal discharge that has an unusual color, odor, or consistency
pain when urinating or having sex
light vaginal bleeding, known as spotting

Vaginitis occurs as a result of changes to the balance of bacteria and yeasts that live inside the vagina. These changes can occur as a result of:

antibiotic use
infection
douching
sexual intercourse
pregnancy or breastfeeding
menopause

According to the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG), as many as 1 in 3 women will experience vaginitis at some point in their lives. The condition can affect women of all ages, but it is more common during the reproductive years.

Douching

Douching is the practice of washing or cleaning out the vagina with water or specially formulated liquids. In the United States, almost 1 in 5 women aged 15–44 years practice douching.

However, many healthcare professionals recommend that people avoid douching, as it can disrupt the delicate balance of bacteria in the vagina.

A healthy vagina has a balance of both good and bad bacteria. This balance helps maintain an acidic environment, which protects the vagina from infections and irritation.

Douching, or using other feminine hygiene products, can upset this balance. This can lead to vaginal dryness and irritation.

Vaginismus

Vaginismus is an involuntary tightening of the pelvic floor muscles in anticipation of vaginal penetration. This causes tightness and associated pain whenever an object enters the vagina.

The symptoms of vaginismus may become apparent during sex, a pelvic examination, or the insertion of a tampon.

Some potential symptoms include:

sudden vaginal tightness
muscle spasms in the vagina
a burning or stinging pain in the vagina

Vaginismus is a treatable condition that may require a combination of medical, physical, and psychological therapies.

Menopause

During menopause, estrogen levels dip. This can cause vaginal atrophy, in which the vaginal lining becomes thinner, dryer, and less elastic.

Some people may experience a wide range of effects associated with menopause. Doctors refer to this as genitourinary syndrome of menopause (GSM).

Some signs and symptoms of GSM include:

vaginal burning and itching
more frequent vaginal infections and urinary tract infections
frequent urination
decreased lubrication during sex, resulting in painful intercourse
bleeding after sex, due to the tissues of the vulva and vagina become more fragile and susceptible to tearing

Childbirth and breastfeeding

Estrogen levels decline dramatically after following childbirth. Estrogen can also interfere with milk production, so levels of this hormone decrease further when a person is breastfeeding.

This lack of estrogen can cause the skin of the vagina to become thinner and less elastic. The vagina will also become drier and feel less lubricated than normal.

These symptoms are temporary and should go away once the person’s hormone levels have returned to normal.

Testosterone

For people taking testosterone as they transition from female to male, it is possible that this can make the tissues of the vagina drier and tighter, as well as much more fragile.

Sjogren’s syndrome

Sjogren’s syndrome is an autoimmune condition that affects the parts of the body that create fluids, such as tears and saliva. It can also cause vaginal dryness.

Treatment and management

There are a number of effective treatments for vaginal dryness and tightness. The treatment that works best will depend on the cause of a person’s symptoms.

For this reason, it is important to see a doctor or gynecologist for diagnosis.

A person may need a combination of more than one treatment or management strategy. The sections below outline some options in more detail.

Foreplay

At the entrance of the vagina, there are two glands called the Bartholin’s glands. During arousal, these glands increase moisture production to aid sexual intercourse.

Lack of arousal can be a cause of vaginal dryness in some cases. To increase vaginal lubrication during sex, couples can take time to engage in masturbation or other forms of foreplay.

Personal lubricants

Personal lubricants are products that people can apply to the vagina before sex. They create a film over the skin, which helps counteract dryness and decrease friction during intercourse.

People should opt for water-based lubricants over oil-based ones. This is because oil-based lubricants can increase vaginal irritation.

Silicone-based lubricants also tend to be safe and effective, especially during menopause and after childbirth, as long as a person does not use them with sex toys made from silicone.

Personal lubricants are available without a prescription from most drugstores, as well as online.

Learn about natural lubricant alternatives here.

Vaginal moisturizers

Vaginal moisturizers are products specifically designed to treat vaginal dryness. They also help keep vaginal pH low, which ensures a healthy vaginal environment.

People should apply this moisturizer regularly, around every 2 or 3 days. Because vaginal moisturizers can last for up to 2 days, people do not need to reapply them before having sex.

Vaginal moisturizers are available over the counter in most drugstores.

Prescription medications

Below are some treatments that a doctor may prescribe to treat vaginal dryness and associated symptoms.

Low-dose intravaginal estrogen therapy

Low-dose intravaginal estrogen therapy involves applying a small dose of estrogen directly to the vagina.

People can apply the estrogen in the form of vaginal creams, vaginal rings, or vaginal tablets.

Estrogen helps reverse vaginal atrophy and alleviate dryness and irritation.

Higher-dose systemic hormone therapy

Higher-dose systemic hormone therapy (SHT) involves using pills, skin patches, or topical sprays to release estrogen into the bloodstream. From here, the estrogen can travel to the various organs and tissues of the body.

A doctor may prescribe higher-dose SHT for those who experience hot flashes and other effects of menopause besides vaginal dryness.

Relaxation therapy and talking therapies

Vaginismus is a condition that emotional as well as physical stressors can trigger.

For people with vaginismus, a doctor may recommend relaxation therapy or some form of talking therapy. These therapies can help reduce the automatic tightening of the pelvic floor muscles and any associated fear of pain.

People can also see a physical therapist if they wish to improve the control of their pelvic floor muscles.

When to see a doctor

Some conditions that cause vaginal dryness and tightness require medical attention. Therefore, it is important for a person to see a doctor or gynecologist if they are unsure of the cause of their symptoms.

People should also see a doctor if they experience persistent vaginal dryness and tightness despite home treatment. The doctor may be able to provide stronger treatment. They may also want to rule out any underlying health conditions.

Summary

There are many potential causes of vaginal dryness and tightness. These include hormonal changes and changes in the balance of good and bad bacteria in the vagina.

There are also a number of potential treatment options for vaginal dryness and tightness. A person may need to try more than one treatment option to find symptom relief, however.

It is important to see a doctor or gynecologist if vaginal symptoms do not respond to home treatments. There may be an underlying condition that requires professional medical treatment.

Menopause
Sexual Health / STDs
Women's Health / Gynecology
Parenthood

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Medically reviewed by Carolyn Kay, M.D. — Written by Hana Ames on May 28, 2020

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Why Am I Tight And Dry? Causes And Management

Vaginitis

Douching

Vaginismus

Menopause

Childbirth and breastfeeding

Testosterone

Sjogren’s syndrome

Treatment and management

Foreplay

Personal lubricants

Vaginal moisturizers

Prescription medications

Low-dose intravaginal estrogen therapy

Higher-dose systemic hormone therapy

Relaxation therapy and talking therapies

When to see a doctor

Summary

How we reviewed this article:

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