Is It Time Leave Your Relationship? - Quiz - Sandra Harewood

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Is Your Marriage at a Crossroads?

A Reflective Quiz to Help You Understand Where Your Relationship Is Right Now

When you’re in a long-term relationship, uncertainty doesn’t always arrive as a crisis. Sometimes it shows up more subtly.

This quiz is designed to help you pause and take stock of your marriage. It doesn’t tell you what to do. It helps you understand where your relationship is right now.

Take the Quiz

Answer intuitively, there are no right or wrong answers.

What This Quiz Is…and Is Not

This quiz offers a reflective snapshot of your relationship as it is right now.

It is:

• Thoughtful and emotionally grounded
• Designed for people in committed, long-term relationships
• Focused on awareness rather than quick fixes

It is not:

• A diagnosis
• A test that your relationship passes or fails
• A push toward staying or leaving

Your Results Will Fall Into One of Four Common Relationship Experiences

Your responses will point towards one of four broad experiences that many couples move through over time:

• You Feel Mostly SecureYour relationship has strong foundations, even if there are moments of tension or unspoken emotion.

• You’re Feeling DistantThere are signs of disconnection or recurring frustration, but also meaningful strengths worth tending to.

• You’re Hearing Alarm BellsYour relationship is signalling that something important needs attention, care, or change.

• Your Marriage Is at a Serious CrossroadsYou may be facing deeper uncertainty or distress, and clarity, rather than endurance, is becoming essential.

Each outcome includes reflection points and practical suggestions designed to meet you where you are.

Who This Quiz Is For

This quiz is for you if:

• You’re questioning your marriage, but don’t want to rush a decision
• You feel unsure whether what you’re experiencing is normal or a sign of something deeper
• You want to understand your feelings rather than suppress or override them
• You’re seeking clarity, not judgement

What Happens After the Quiz

Alongside your result, you’ll be offered:

• Reflective practices suited to your situation
• A free guide: 21 Questions to Stop Overthinking & Start Getting Clear
• Options for further support, if and when that feels right

Privacy & Care

Your responses are confidential.

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