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santrese cooper answered Hi I' am 22 years old and I am still a virgin. I remained a virgin for this long not because I am scared or waiting for marriage, but because I am not simply ready for sex yet. Listening to some of these comments is making me want to hurl. A woman's virginity is not a prize to be won and if you think it is then you don't deserve the special gift she shared with you. I have had lots of opportunities to have sex and lots of offer's but I remember that having sex for the first time is special. So ladies who are still virgins choose your partner wisely, choose someone who will love you and not treat your virginity as a trophy Anonymous answered Well ladies you are asking for men to be pure.I'm 26 never touched a girl. Still waiting for that special someone.I'm a guy and if I can control my urges not to be with a female until I meet the girl I love then I think also girls should be able to control themselves, and not spread their legs for every doosh bag they meet. The main reason why someone like me would want a girl to be a virgin is not to hurt her or because shes tight. Its because of her purity and self control. Also virginity is important because shes going to be the mother of my children. If I find my virgin girl I will love and worship her for eternity, because I want someone with self control and pure. Beside why should I keep myself pure all these years and end up with someone else's used goods. And for all the none virgin females out there, I agree with you. If I am not virgin then I don't have the right to brag on you in being a virgin yourself. Anonymous answered I'm 19, and still a virgin. It's not for lack of wanting or the opportunity to do the deed. I'm fully in mindset that the only man who should be with me that way is my husband. I like the idea of a having only that one serious relationship. Sex these days is taken so lightly and sleeping with someone just to satisfy some need, or because it may be expected, isn't appealing. Anonymous answered Men should stop acting hypocritically,they too should be virgins! Anonymous answered It shouldn't matter about whether or not a person is a virgin or not, its about two people coming together who have total love and respect for each other. Sex shouldn't be selfish where only one person is only getting pleasure out of it. If the couple really care for each other, both partners will want to pleasure each other equally. It shouldn't matter if one partner has had sex 20 times in the past, they may have had a troubled past that has put them into that situation. A caring partner would not judge them and leave all that in the past. They would want to make that person's life better that the partner wouldn't want to have sex with anyone else. Just as long as safe sex is being practiced, things should be ok. Anonymous answered Why only females have characters but not man ????. Well I m an 21 year old indian girl n still virgin . Females virginity can be checked by men easily n what about men ??? . Actually its all about a right thing at right time any thing at wrong time is consider as sin specially for indians but I still proud to b an indian . That yes v have nice culture to have patience or control on ourselves .this for all stupid boys who consider girls as MALL , ITEM, or whatever... Anonymous answered Because men feel that they can manipulate a virgin more. Some of the comments here are full of typical male double standards. You say you prefer a virgin to someone who has been with 20 guys, but how clean are you? Seems like men can place themselves anywhere and that's ok but women can't even breathe out of place without being called dirty. At the end of the day men behave like babies (proven fact) and they have to feel like they've got their own way-to hell with the consequences or who they hurt on the way. Men with violent and aggressive attitudes towards sex and women should be kept away from-but unfortunately its these types that manipulate innocent girls. Too many mags like FHM and Nuts do not help. If you are point scoring, then what goes around comes around and you will end up very sad and lonely men. Anonymous answered The guys love to sleep with virgins because they can be assure that this girl will be honest just to me and will never have sex with other, as she kept herself till now. For meeeetry do not to sleep with many many guys, but just your own.Enjoy your life. Grant Robinson answered Men like sleeping with virgins because either there trying to be sneaky and act like they're a virgin too because men do that. Or because it's more pleasurable or because they don't want to have sex with someone who has been with allot of other people. S-J M-H answered Actually, there are many women who would like a virgin man too. Everyone wants to feel that they are important and unique. It's a throwback from our sexist history that we fixate on female virginity without even considering what a woman might hope for or expect from a man. Anonymous answered First: Educate yourselves and write properly.  Second, there are a lot of sexist prigs on this page.  Men and women have every right to practice safe, STD free sex with as many or as few people as their philosophy allows.  Just accept that sexuality is a part of both gender's genetic and physiological makeup and move on.  And for those of you who enjoy virgins because of the pain you can cause them, I hope your balls shrivel off.And for those of you who objectify women, I can only hope you fail to procreate. Anonymous answered Because there is nothing more seductive than purity. Anonymous answered I think it is still better that we reserve our virginity. Not because we are scared nor ugly, it's just that there is beauty and mystery to the women who still manage to control themselves and not just throw themselves to any man or jerk they meet. ;) Anonymous answered I think virgins should marry virgins and non virgins should marry non virgins. Because a lot of guys who have had sex like girls with experience and guy who r still virgins like a clean girl for the first time Anonymous answered It differs for everybody. Some prefer because they like fresh territory and tightness. I prefer experience Anonymous answered This is soooo wrong , ok fine if guys like virgins cause their tighter or whatever ( even though its a selfish reason ) but to say that its cause their pure is stupid , does that mean that after 1 night a woman goes from pure and innocent to what dirty??? I wish people had the same views on mens virginity !!!! This pisses me off ... bala bala answered It is one thing to want to be a virgin yourself or not - it is a personal choice influenced by culture, religion, beliefs, fears, hopes, chance, etc. People should fully respect other people's personal choices. But it is a whole different story JUDGING people for the choice they have made and expecting them to be someone who meets their own criteria just so you can flatter your ego and feel like you have conquered some new territory by being the first all mighty to pee all over it woohoo. Be a virgin if you like or have sex with whomever you feel comfortable with. It is YOUR life. Anonymous answered Just the whole idea of being their first. Anonymous answered Stay pure Anonymous answered If having sex makes a woman dirty or inpure, then women why are we having sex with these guys? If allowing them to enter us makes us dirty, then they are the dirty ones for contaminating us! Having sex for the first time is very painful and any guy that takes pleasure in that is disgusting. So guys since you all like virgins, you have a lot of 1night stands? Cause the girl you just sexed is no longer a virgin. Anonymous answered I am 22, still virgin, this is something I keep for the only person I will love in my life. And I hope this person will treasure it. Anonymous answered The very same reason, why a girl would like to be the first woman  in his life.  And remain the first and last for  each other. Paul answered Part of it has to do with being the first person to explore new territory. Part of it has to do with the physical tightness of a virgin. Personally, I like women who are tested clean, but know what they're doing. Having a good grip down there is also very important, at least as far as the sexual intercourse is concerned. Anonymous answered Wow, I am seriously disgusted by the double standard. Sexism obviously hasn't been eradicated, but it's surprising to realize that we are still only concerned about whether the guy's getting his fix or not. It's rather pitiable that a man still has to measure himself by the woman he is with, while women can measure personal success by their own merits. Anonymous answered This goes for the girls..giving your virginity away is somethin valuable..maybe not to guys but to girls it is..I'm guessing guys like virgins cause they like the tightness and their not sluts..I'm very happy that I still have my virginity..is somethin powerful I still have and I hope to give it up to a guy that deserves it n that values it just like I do Anonymous answered I'm 19 and a virgin girl.. I'm talking to a man who is 23 and def. Not a virgin... After I told him I was a virgin his reaction was "I LOVE YOU!" and I was really shocked cause I always thought men prefered a more experienced girl.. So I asked him why he thought that was so hot and he said some men like experienced girls cause there a lot more easier then a virgin.. And he said he likes a challenge. I was a bit offended... I felt like it is more about a mans pride; that he was her first. An awesome prize. Shanon Collins answered If I had to guess I would think because that guys like it because the girl is pure and it feels special when they give them something that special to them. Also it provides more pleasure for the guy because the girl is tighter. Anonymous answered Speak 4 yourself bro I whipped that thing till it started talkin back to me lol jkbut 4 real stay pure male or female no body wants someone that another person marked up as their territory. Carla Taylor answered Men like virgins because they think that it's a chanllenge to get them into bed as they have never done it before and they also think they're special if they are the first people that people have sex with. Anonymous answered Because they don't want experienced girl as like you will nt eat tht food which has been taken by some other...or left on plate by some one other...thts why they want fresh mallll Anonymous answered So now this means that wen all you guys who want a virgin girl 4 a better sex would drop them after sum time because they r no more a virgin n can not please you that much again..rite..I would say you guys r sick who want a virgin girl for a better sex pleasure..if I would have had been a girl I would have not wanted to be with a guy whose thinking was so narrow..its always better to look to what you are than to go for the person whom should not deserve you..you guys should not deserve a single girl may it be a virgin or who is not a virgin.. Anonymous answered Some men like virgins and some don't...I guessbut virgins are good at having sex too Anonymous answered Is always fan to break the seal. Who would want a girl who has slept with 20 guys anyway? Is a human nature to fight to be the first one Anonymous answered Personally I think Virgins are clean and nice. I don't want to stick it in something dirty > . < THats my opinion Anonymous answered Me 2 am still virgin!!!!and am over 20!!!!this is my most precious gift that I can gve my would be husband.... Anonymous answered They think you know what your doing and give you control keturah smith answered Men like virgins because they can get a lot of sex Anonymous answered Which men are we talking about here? Have any of you ever de-flowered a virgin? It isn't fun! In fact it is terrible! Anonymous answered Men ,like, virgin.thats true and thats false being a MAN or being a virgin have nothing to do w/ it Anonymous answered They want to make sure they don't suck cause somehow they can figure out that you think they suck and they don't want other guys to be better than them Anonymous answered Well I think that why men like virgins is because they can get more and pressure them in to doing it.... Anonymous answered I'm 19 still virgin coz I'm a muslim girl n it is nt coz I don't have b/f.Now I'm really scare of having sex, I didnt no all this staff before Anonymous answered Its so true its tight and fresh but you don't always have too be a virgin to marry a virgin you can marry a non-virgin too ! Anonymous answered Think of it this way, you wouldnt drink something 26 other people have spit in would you? Anonymous answered If you marry a virgin she will bleed for you only once....but bleed you for the rest of your life....beware! Anonymous answered Because they just want to say that I was there frist  and how nice it felt..... Anonymous answered Imma guy, And Most of guys like tight vagina's. Not necessarily a virgin, Just Women who haven't had sex often.  Jonathan Eastman answered Because if their was a woman that has slept with lets say 20 men. I wouldn't want to sleep with her, because if I sleep with her then I am technically sleeping with all the men that she slept with in the past, because whatever they had before, now she is carrying. Anonymous answered Me and my fiancee have been together for six years. We started sex two weeks after we met. Does that mean I'm somehow "ruined" and a bad woman? I do my exercises and I'm still tight, but the virgin tightness back then was nasty and it hurt. Should I now be led into thinking that even though it hurt me, it was awesome for him? This kind of heartlessness makes me angry. dianna jones answered Because its tighter...... And guys are strange because virgins bleed Shayla Jay answered Because everyone likes someone who's pure. Anonymous answered Because it feels better and the moan sounds better sara connor answered Because they're young and guys like them young Anonymous answered Who said they like? And if they like I can guess of one reason; Simply virgins have not slept with anybody and men enjoy breaking their virgin. Anonymous answered They want to pop he cherry b/c for most men that is a passage into manhood, "deflowering" a virgin Anonymous answered I'll just tell you what me Dad told me Hee hee!  The DIFFERENCE between a virgin and a F------g S--T  is...ONCE! Anonymous answered Because they are unexperienced & since they are, men take advantage of it & get the virgin to do things sexually because they have never had the expierence before. Anonymous answered Bcz eating the first fruit of the season/tree is enjoyable. margaux franco answered Men find thrills in exploring naivity Marilee Rizo answered Fresher newer and not yet opened thoroughly Virgina means better sexual curses. The wider the easier it will enter the uterus the man will not have to effert or fell the pleasure of it going in. Brian wambua answered Virginity is not dignity, but lack of opportunity.

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