Why Do People Commit Suicide? Risk Factors And More

Maybe your like

Medical News TodaySubscribeWhy do people kill themselves?

Medically reviewed by C.C. Cassell, Psy.D. — Written by Jennifer Huizen on January 15, 2021

Possible reasons
Risk factors
Suicide and mental health
Warning signs
Talking about it
Suicidal thoughts
How to help
For attention?
Summary

Suicide refers to when someone harms themselves with the intent to end their life. The reasons that people attempt suicide are varied and complex, but they often involve severe emotional or physical pain that a person finds unbearable.

This information comes from Suicide Awareness Voices of Education (SAVE).

It can be difficult for people to understand why someone would want to harm themselves. However, suicide is one of the leading causes of death in the United States, according to the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH).

This article will look at some of the reasons that a person might consider suicide, the link between mental health and suicide, and the role of suicidal thoughts.

It will also discuss some ways to help someone who is contemplating suicide and some of the support resources available.

Why do people consider suicide?

A room containing an empty wooden chair with a jacket hanging from the back. — HenrikNorway/Getty Images

Suicide refers to when a person intentionally ends their own life. Sometimes, people use the term “commit suicide” to describe this. However, the word “commit” implies criminality, which can reinforce harmful stigma.

There are many potential reasons that a person may consider suicide. Often, it is the result of long-term difficulties with thoughts, feelings, or experiences that the individual feels that they cannot bear any longer.

Among other things, a person contemplating suicide may feel:

sadness or grief
shame
worthlessness
intense guilt
rage, or a desire to seek revenge
that they are a burden to others
that they have no worth or value
that life is not worth living
that they are trapped, either physically or emotionally
that things will never get better
intense physical or emotional pain

Many factors can contribute to a person feeling this way. It may be due to events happening in their life. Mind, a charity in the United Kingdom, list the following examples of scenarios that may lead to suicide:

the loss of a loved one
bullying, discrimination, or abuse
the end of a relationship
a major change in life circumstances, such as divorce, unemployment, retirement, or homelessness
receiving a diagnosis of a life changing illness
problems with money
being in prison
pregnancy or pregnancy loss
questioning one’s sexual or gender identity in an environment that is not accepting of this
certain cultural practices, such as forced marriage
surviving a traumatic event

However, suicide does not always occur because of a specific life event, and not everyone who experiences these events will consider suicide. People respond to adversity in different ways.

Risk factors

According to the NIMH, suicide is more prevalent among certain groups. These include people who:

are aged 15–24 years
are over the age of 60 years
have a mental health or substance abuse disorder
have a family history of mental health or substance abuse disorders
have a family history of suicide
have experienced family violence or abuse, such as physical, sexual, or psychological abuse
are in prison
have a severe or chronic illness
have access to firearms or other weapons

Males are more likely to die by suicide than females. However, females are more likely to attempt suicide. Attempted suicide occurs when a person tries to end their life but does not die as a result of their actions.

This may be due to a difference in preferred methods. According to the NIMH, for example, males are more likely to use lethal methods that are difficult to treat.

Suicide and mental health

Mental health conditions are a significant risk factor for suicide. SAVE estimate that around 90% of people who die by suicide have a mental health condition.

Some examples of conditions that may contribute to suicidal thoughts or intent include:

substance abuse disorders
depressive disorders
borderline personality disorder
bipolar disorder
anxiety-based disorders
psychosis

However, it is important to note that although mental health conditions can increase the risk of suicide, they are also very common. Additionally, according to the U.K. charity Samaritans, not everyone who considers suicide has a diagnosed mental health condition.

Social isolation, a lack of support, and untreated or mistreated mental health conditions place people at higher risk of suicide, while having appropriate access to healthcare and support lowers this risk.

What are the warning signs?

Some people exhibit warning signs that they are considering suicide. SAVE state that it is important to take notice if someone is:

talking about wanting to die
talking about feeling trapped, feeling hopeless, or being in unbearable pain
talking about being a burden to others
planning or looking for ways to harm themselves, such as acquiring firearms or other weapons, stocking up on medications, or searching online
withdrawing from family and friends
using drugs and alcohol more often
eating or sleeping more or less than normal
acting in an anxious, agitated, or reckless manner
experiencing severe mood shifts

However, not everybody exhibits these warning signs when they are considering suicide. The best way to find out for certain whether or not someone is considering suicide is to talk to them.

Talking about suicide

Some people believe that talking about suicide can cause others to experience suicidal thoughts. However, research has shown this is not true.

For example, one 2014 review found that talking about suicide does not increase the risk of it. In fact, it may even decrease the risk by allowing people to share any thoughts and feelings that they are struggling with.

Although talking to someone about their thoughts of suicide may feel intrusive, it could save their life. Some examples of ways to start a conversation include:

“How have you been feeling?”
“Do you ever feel so bad you think about suicide?”
“Have you been having suicidal thoughts?”

Samaritans recommend listening to what the person has to say without judgment, using a technique known as active listening. This involves:

focusing on the other person, with no distractions
asking open-ended questions
giving someone time to articulate what they want to say
repeating things back to them, to show understanding

Does having suicidal thoughts mean that someone will kill themselves?

Experiencing suicidal thoughts does not always mean that a person will kill themselves. Samaritans state that around 1 in 5 people think about suicide at some point in their lives. Often, this is in response to a temporary feeling or situation.

In many cases, people who experience thoughts about suicide do not act on them. However, if a person has suicidal intent, it means that they have made a decision and intend to act on these thoughts.

This is an important distinction to make, as having suicidal intent indicates that someone needs immediate help.

What to do if someone is considering suicide

If someone intends to end their own life, it is important to act quickly. SAVE recommend:

Asking the question: Ask the person if they have a plan to end their life. If so, ask them how and when they plan to do it.
Calling for help: If a person is in immediate danger, call 911, go to an emergency room at a hospital, or contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (800-273-8255). Hard-of-hearing or deaf people can contact Lifeline by dialing 711 and then 1-800-273-8255, or they can use their preferred relay service.
Taking their reasons seriously: While talking to the person, do not try to convince them that their problems are not that bad. Instead, listen to them, acknowledge how they feel, and reassure them that it is possible to get help.
Not keeping their plan a secret: Although trust is important, keeping a person’s planned method of suicide a secret can put their life at risk. It is essential to let medical professionals or caregivers know how they intend to end their life, so that they can remove any sources of danger.

People can also use these steps to help others online. The following social media sites, as well as some others, have ways to report suicidal content:

Facebook
Instagram
Twitter
YouTube

People who consider suicide do not always want to die. Often, people consider suicide because they feel hopeless and cannot think of a way out of their current situation. Intervention can help a person regain a sense of hope or show them another perspective.

Help is out there

If you or someone you know is in crisis and considering suicide or self-harm, please seek support:

Call or text the 988 Lifeline at 988 or chat at 988lifeline.org. Caring counselors are available to listen and provide free and confidential support 24/7.
Text HOME to the Crisis Text Line at 741741 to connect with a volunteer crisis counselor for free and confidential support 24/7.
Not in the United States? Find a helpline in your country with Befrienders Worldwide.
Call 911 or your local emergency services number if you feel safe to do so.

If you’re calling on behalf of someone else, stay with them until help arrives. You may remove weapons or substances that can cause harm if you can do so safely.

If you’re not in the same household, stay on the phone with them until help arrives.

What if they are doing it for attention?

It is a common misconception that people who talk about or attempt suicide do so for attention and, therefore, do not need help. However, any suicidal thoughts or behaviors indicate severe distress. As a result, it is important to take them seriously.

Even if a person does not intend to kill themselves, talking about suicide or acting in a self-destructive manner can indicate that they need mental health support.

Summary

There are many reasons that a person might consider suicide. Some people consider suicide due to specific events or life experiences, while others may do so because of a physical or mental health condition that causes them unbearable pain.

The reasons that people take their lives are not always clear, but having open conversations about suicide can help alleviate a person’s pain.

Depression
Mental Health
Psychology / Psychiatry

How we reviewed this article:

SourcesMedical News Today has strict sourcing guidelines and relies on peer-reviewed studies, academic research institutions, and medical journals and associations. We only use quality, credible sources to ensure content accuracy and integrity. You can learn more about how we ensure our content is accurate and current by reading our editorial policy.

About suicide. (n.d.). https://save.org/about-suicide/
Dazzi, T., et al. (2014). Does asking about suicide and related behaviours induce suicidal ideation? What is the evidence? https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/psychological-medicine/article/does-asking-about-suicide-and-related-behaviours-induce-suicidal-ideation-what-is-the-evidence/FCAEE9E5BC840D76CF10AEBECD921AC9
How to help someone who feels suicidal. (n.d.).https://save.org/find-help/im-concerned-about-someone-else/
How to support someone you're worried about. (n.d.).https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/if-youre-worried-about-someone-else/how-support-someone-youre-worried-about/what-do-if-you-think-someone-struggling/
Myths about suicide. (n.d.). https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/if-youre-worried-about-someone-else/myths-about-suicide/
Questions about suicide. (n.d.).https://save.org/about-suicide/faqs/
Suicidal feelings. (2020).https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/suicidal-feelings/causes-of-suicidal-feelings/
Suicide in America: Frequently asked questions. (n.d.). https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/suicide-faq/index.shtml
Warning signs of suicide. (n.d.).https://save.org/about-suicide/warning-signs-risk-factors-protective-factors/

Share this article

Medically reviewed by C.C. Cassell, Psy.D. — Written by Jennifer Huizen on January 15, 2021

Latest news

Time-restricted eating may reduce Crohn’s symptoms, inflammation by half
Can statins really cause memory loss and weight gain? New evidence says 'no'
1 to 3 cups of caffeinated tea or coffee a day may help reduce dementia risk
New Novo Nordisk weight-loss drug more effective than Wegovy in clinical trial
Metformin may help prevent long COVID, evidence suggests

Related Coverage

What does it mean to be at risk of suicide?Medically reviewed by Taisha Caldwell-Harvey, PhD
Some people use the term “suicidal tendencies” to describe someone who may be at risk of suicide. However, it is not a correct term. Learn more.
READ MORE
What suicidal ideation is and how to cope
In this article, learn about why some people consider suicide. It also covers what to do if you or a loved one experiences these thoughts.
READ MORE
What are the warning signs of suicide?Medically reviewed by Timothy J. Legg, PhD, PsyD
Suicide is preventable with the right treatment and support. Learn about the warning signs and risk factors for suicide in this article. We also…
READ MORE
What to know about male suicideMedically reviewed by Marney A. White, PhD, MS
Worldwide, suicide is more prevalent among men than women. Learn more about causes, risk factors, and preventive steps here, as well as how to help…
READ MORE
How to manage feelings of loneliness when working from homeMedically reviewed by Joslyn Jelinek, LCSW, ACSW, RDDP
Several in-person and online activities, strategies, and tips can help people manage feelings of loneliness when working from home. Learn more.
READ MORE

Tag » Why Do People Commit Sucide

Why Do People Commit Suicide? Risk Factors And More

Health Conditions

Health Products

News

Original Series

Podcasts

General Health

Health Tools

Quizzes

About Medical News Today

Find Community

Follow Us

Why do people consider suicide?

Risk factors

Suicide and mental health

What are the warning signs?

Talking about suicide

Does having suicidal thoughts mean that someone will kill themselves?

What to do if someone is considering suicide

Help is out there

What if they are doing it for attention?

Summary

How we reviewed this article:

Latest news

Related Coverage

Why Do People Commit Suicide? - Verywell Mind

What Is Suicide, Why Do People Commit Suicide, What Causes ...

Why Do People Die By Suicide? - Health

Causes Of Suicidal Feelings - Mind

Frequently Asked Questions About Suicide - NIMH

Why Do People Become Suicidal?

Why Do People Commit Suicide? 6 Suicide FAQs - Healthline

The Six Reasons People Attempt Suicide - ImagineMD

Suicide (for Teens) - Nemours KidsHealth

The Fallacy Of Happiness: A Psychological Investigation Of Suicide ...

Myths About Suicide - Samaritans

Understanding The Suicidal Person | Expert Commentary

Why Do Depressed People Commit Suicide? - Vinmec

Recognizing Suicide Behavior: Risk Factors, Warning Signs, What To ...

Contact